How many of you can't come out and how do you deal with it?

Where I'm from is very homophobic in general. There are lots of people who just want people to be happy and are accepting of differences but then the others still want to have lynch mobs.That aside, my parents are also homophobic which makes things hard knowing they'd really hate me. My older brother knows and I assume my younger does too.I've accepted coming out isn't a possibility but it just doesn't feel fair.