Advice ?

Hey guys ! Sorry for the long post - it’s my first one on this sub :) you helped me a lot in the last year btwI’m gay, I know since i’m 14yo .. now i’m 23... and i’m still not completely out (working on it) - I’m glad to live in canada where it’s easier than other countryAnyway, For all those year, i kind off defended the point that i wasnt... up to last year. When people look at me, they don’t see a gay. In fact, everybody that look at me are convinced that I am hetero... well, i don’t care much since I am who I am, but it pose issue when I go out and try to meet new people ex: gay club, bar etc. (Because it alway force me to do the first steps)Since i am not into the community that much (I mean, like I dont hang out with gay friends) is there’s a thing that I can wear or something that would point out to people that I am gay ?I dont want to change myself, just trying to give an hint to people that I’m there ...Thank you guys !