Advice About the Gays of My City

Idk what to do y'all. These motherfuckers are such juvenile idiots that it has gotten to that point where violence may be the only answer. They posts ads about me every day on craigslist to which I've emailed them. Sometimes they get removed. Sometimes they don't. They tell people I rape kids and make kiddy porn. They spam my phone with calls filling up my mailboxes. Post my info in major cities so I get blown up that way too. They watch grindr for profiles that go offline near me assuming we are or aren't hooking up and then harass them telling them to commit suicide for hooking up with me. They have a private group about me on facebook where they vote for the next rumor to makeup about me lol. Like tell me this shit isn't ridiculous. Legally I can't do anything until I have proof. I have ideas of who it is. The only reason they do it is I do amateur porn and I get a lot of dick I guess and they are jealous? Cause I don't do the clubs or bars and I am not involved in the gay scene at all. But when I get constant messages asking if it's true I have HIV or if I molest kids and sell it where do you draw the line of taking it into your own hands. I can't go to the law. I can't ignore because it's messing with both my professional/personal life. Any advice because I'm to that point of cracking heads lol. I'm 6'5'' 235. I'm not your clubby twink gay. I will hurt a bitch if/when I hulk out lol. I'm not a violent person mind you either until I'm backed into a corner and when I don't have an option to make this stop or go away that's pushing me into a corner.