Gay prior to being "Gay"

it touched me profoundly when i read this post on Frank Ocean's tumblr. Frank writes "I was six years old when I heard my dad call our transgender waitress a faggot as he dragged me out a neighborhood diner saying we wouldn’t be served because she was dirty." When was the first time you heard about the idea of homosexuality? for me, i had made out with a kid as a kid before i knew what the word gay was. like real young. it had never been mentioned to me. that is why I find it so funny/fucked up when people say that the gay community promotes propaganda that sways kids minds. Do you have a specific memory of being gay before you knew you were gay?