Dear gay guys: STOP

I'm sick of the 500 requirements they need to be friends with someone. I'm sick of them wanting to be "just friends" but starting off the conversation with sexual questions. I'm sick of them "being open minded" but can't even accept themselves. I'm sick of them wanting Disney-style relationships and for a dude to spoil them, but bringing nothing to the table and being minimalists. I'm sick of the gays who are DL/closeted and expecting everyone to play their games to help them not be caught. I'm sick of gays being segregated more than blacks and whites in the 1800s with the many labels used nowadays. I'm sick of gays who constantly feel the need to attention whore the fact that they're gay, rather than just existing.All of this SHIT harms the gay community, so stop it. Wake up, take charge of your life and realize that destructive lifestyles are not attractive. If you're gay then YOU'RE JUST GAY. I do not see how gay guys nowadays pretty much force everyone around them to walk on eggshells with their insane criteria, and then wonder why they never find what they're looking for?Hint: The less chaotic your life is, the more attractive the door to enter it will be. No one wants to hang around people who ALWAYS have some nonsense going on or who have to be super sneaky! (THIS GOES FOR ALL PEOPLE, GAY OR STRAIGHT. However, this topic is only focusing on the GAY ones.)