A familiar story...

So i met this guy off of a popular dating app after several reservations. I didnt think I'd be attracted to him face to face but i was trying to step out of my comfort zone and give this guy a try. He was trying really hard to meet me for awhile and i gave in on this rainy Saturday night. That night i realized I still wasn't feeling him but i was glad to meet him because i think he's a very cool person, great friend/hangout buddy material. Unfortunately we got ridiculously drunk, made out a few times, and fell asleep. I left in the middle of the night knowing i made a huge mistake. Fast forward to Wednesday, he's been texting and what not still interested and i give into meet again JUST to make sure i wasnt jumping the gun with how i felt....i wasnt, i still didnt see him like that and i got to see him interact with his real friends and was turned off even more.Here's the problem....that 2nd night, he introduced me to someone who i would like to get to know. We were so much alike that even my "date" commeented on it. Hes a complete opposite of the guy i cant see a future with and lives in the same complex a him. I saw him on tbe dating app after i left and made small talk.Im a 31 yo black male and i feel like i should know better than this. However part of me is screaming go after what you want! I dont want to be "messy" but this guy is exactly what I'm interested in and the first guy still has it in his mind he has a chance and i definitely dont feel that way.......advice?TL;DR. Guy likes me, i like his friend, make a move or not?