2015. május 31., vasárnap
What does the word "queer" mean to you?
Hey all. I am a queer identified Linguistic grad student who is interested in hearing from different folks about what the word"queer" means to them. Is "queer" an identity label that you claim? why or why not?
Law Student Is Outed by Harvard, Sent To Ex-Gay Therapy, Puts Counselor to Shame.
https://www.youtube.com/attribution_link?a=SALwclqOXY8&u=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DZDipt48sVyo%26feature%3Dshare
Outlander-finale; SPOILER ALERT; A monumental leap for primetime?
If you have seen the season finale for Outlander, what did you think? Was it ground breaking? Was it realistic? Did Jaime really cum?
Studies regarding post-transition operations for trans individuals?
Hey /r/ainbow,Earlier this evening I got into a minor argument about whether or not insurance should assist in paying for transitioning for transgender people, and that lead me to wonder if there are any worthwhile studies regarding post-SRS experiences, specifically about their quality of life after going through with the ordeal.I know there are a lot of people that have transitioned with surgery and all that seem satisfied, but I was curious as to if there has been any formal research done in regards to this. A Google search either turned up rather outdated results or a post on a news site declaring that transitioning doesn't help with no links to back the claim up :/Any assistance is appreciated!
2015. május 30., szombat
I went to the "Thunder From Down Under" show in NOLA tonight and the guys were extra friendly to me:)
Tonight I went to the "Thunder from Down Under" show in New Orleans with my female friend. I'm sort of shy so I thought I would feel awkward knowing I would likely be the only guy or one of only 2 or 3 guys there, buy I really enjoyed it. The guy I thought was the hottest (Beau) came on our row while they were doing the personal dances for money, and shook my hand (he was, like everyone else, assuming that I was the straight boyfriend/husband of my friend and had been dragged against my will), but when I pulled out my money, he got on me like he would the girls.Then later, when they were doing pictures with the group of guys, I was in line for my picture card with my friend. One of the dancers, Ryan, shook my hand, introduced himself, asked for my name, and asked if I enjoyed the show. I noticed he hadn't done that with any of the girls ahead of me in line.Then I finally get up to the front and it's my turn to take the pic. Beau (my favorite) told me to come sit on his lap, so I did, and we took the picture. Then when I got up, he gave me a pretty firm pat on the ass, and then the guy who was in the pic standing behind me, Dylan, did the same. (again, I didn't see them do that to any of the girls) When I looked back and smiled at him, he shrugged and smiled and I said "oh I didn't mind at all," and he then proceeded to turn around, poke his butt out, and let me slap his ass.I had a great time and the guys were super friendly and seemed to go out of there way to be nice to me, which I of course enjoyed. Just wanted to share:)
Valentine's Day, and why there are a lot of people in the closet.
Brazilian Valentine's Day, and why there are a lot of people in the closet.In 06-11 is here commemorated Valentine's day, and a company has made an adverteisement about it,and in it the company shows all types of couples. And instead of support this action, a lot of people are reproving it. The religious and fundamentalists are commenting the video by saying horrible things, and also "unliking" the video. I see that the problem of being a lot of people in the closet is that we have people saying horrible things to them, things like "God doesn't like you.." "God says that you are an aberration..."Well, I would like you guys to show them that the world is against this homophobic behavior, by liking the video or commenting something that you think. I think that it's necessary, because if the reprovation continues maybe the company disapprove advertisements like that and don't do more like this one (and also other companies)http://.www.youtube.com/watch?v=p4b8BMnolDI(This is the same post I've made on LGBT subreddit).
What do you do on your first date?
Where do you and your date go out? What do you do together, for how long? I'd like to take some tips, as I've absolutely no clue on what to do...
Positive depiction of effeminate gay characters?
I'm looking for effeminate gay characters on TV, in films and books who are not just a joke, a victim or a villain. Do you know any?
I feel stupid
last night I went to a party and there was 4 guys that were obviously gay, i don't have anything against gay people but some of the girls i was with started to make fun of them, I hate that, so i invited them over to my table and gave each a drink, I made it clear that i know what happened and that I apologized to them for them being disrespectful, to my surprise one of the guys kissed me on the cheek and grabbed my butt. I've been a member of reddit for a long time and being a part of supporting the gay community is important, however what happened today was just weird.
My Issue With "Just Gay" Characters And Their Critics
Ive got a serious problem with people who complain about a character who's "gay just to be gay". They act as if this is their only trait. Ive NEVER seen just a gay character. I see other traits, maybe sassy, kind, intelligent, fashion forward, book warm, good friend etc. but NEVER just gay.Which is why I have to question these people, be gay straight or bi, why they only see gay when a character who is? I don't care about them being stereotypical, or a token character, none of those arguments have any credit to me, to have an LGBT character period is a still a tremendous thing. Unless the character was just written with no story and is just there to be there, then yes you have a point, but majority of shows give gay characters storylines whether it be a boyfriend, coming out, or so on. And then people criticize those storylines. Why? its something ALL gay men will go through in their lifetimes, and yet its "too stereotypical or too played out". Love and coming out are two very real things in a gay person's life, so why complain exactly?
Is there such thing as a HD copy of Hedwig and the Angry Inch?
Not sure if this is the right place for this. I'd really like an HD copy of the 2001 movie that would be easy to play on a tv via PS4 etc. I notice the movie is not out on Blu ray...any suggestions?
2015. május 29., péntek
LGBT Rights in South Korea: We need your help
Hi all,Please sign this petition for the president of South Korea. I don’t know if you are aware of the major struggle we are having in this small country. The churches (mostly a very strange and backwards version of presbyterianism) control so much of society, and young people brave enough to speak out are most often silenced by those who are older (this being a neo-confucian culture and all).As a foreigner in this country I have the option of leaving when I want. My students do not. I am a high school teacher and I know so many young LGBT people here whose phones are policed by watch-dog apps, whose parents send them to mental hospitals if they stop attending church or say they are queer.Please help by signing and sharing this petition. Thank you!
Single since forever (No advice or anything needed; just wanted to vent)
I came out when I was 16 because I had already figured it out by then and since then I have not dated anyone. I am 22(m) now and Im my my last year before graduating college and now these days I just feel weird about it now. Most of my friends are all in long term relationships which means they just treat you very differently. First off you never see them anymore because they suddenly grew a new limb that has a job, dreams and hopefully a bank account. or they look at you like something they have to match with something like a fucked up puzzle then they constantly tell you how much they wish you had someone or that you just don't know what its like. Ive been pretty content with just focusing on school and my career enough but just these last few months have led my to just feel kinda weird about it. Yes indeed it would fantastic to be in a relationship and I have moments where I can say no please I love being single its great and then there are other times where I just want to fuck a stranger in a bar or become a go go dancer or go do porn or something. Because i can get over the sexual aspects of being alone but its the romantic relationship bullshit which I cant replicate.I live alone, I work in a studio all day alone, I go out for dinner alone, I see movies alone. I feel like some kind of weird homosexual monster who just cant make proper human relationships who lives in a cave and just yells at passing couples.I tried tinder and some other ways to meet other gay guys(even just for a friendship) but those trails lead only to a creek full of disappointment and a men who live in the country. Or I just did not mesh well with them as I complain about movies and spit out information on art history while also loudly laughing.All in all I feel like a weird creature that cant form relationships and also flops around wanting to be in a relationship then back over to wanting to be single for all eternity because shared existence sounds like the worst thing ever. I feel very flip flop about the whole thing and my mind switches like every few hours. Does he want a relationship? does he want stability and someone to fill his bed? No he just wants to cry in his car at 7 on a Saturday after eating alone at a dennys? Okay. Also don't call me on speaker phone as you fuckers are driving down to a b&b asking if I want to get a room so we can all spend time together. If you got through that all. A+. Thanks for listening to me throw my feelings at the wall.
A little help?
My best friend was recently dumped by his boyfriend. We've been friends a few years and until the day that happened, I had seen him as such. However, on the night of the breakup, I stopped what I was doing, rushed to his side, and consoled him.While he was ugly crying into my chest, I realized that I'm in love with him. It hit me like a truck. I never in my life thought I'd be in this position, but here I am.We've spent a ton of time together since then and it's not getting any easier. My friends love him, my family loves him, my mother considers him her other son, he's gorgeous, funny, smart, he's gone so far as to tell me he wouldn't be who he is without me... I could go on and on. He's perfect to me.I really don't want to fuck things up. It's terrifying. I love him, he's the best-est best friend I've ever had. I would love to be more, but I think it's too early to be making any confessions (since he's still in the mend) and he doesn't have anyone else to really open up to about things.Any advice or feedback would be appreciated. Thanks for reading.
been dating a guy, how long to wait to be bfs?
I've been seeing someone for almost two months and going on "dates" about three or four times a week. After about the 8th date we got "intimate" and have been since then. We are both in our early 20s and both of us has only been in a relationship once prior. so we are no experts :). we are both pretty nerdy guys although i give off more of a jock look i feel really attracted to him which he has a very nerdy look to him which i like very much :) we had our first kiss in public after having dinner and walking him to his car early on when we first met. i've spent the night over at his place around 5 times and met his roommate. I am very insecure when it comes to reading peoples feelings and emotions so i never really know if someone "really" likes me. he's not really a big "texter" which i've come to learn and accept because at first i just felt he didn't care much to talk to me but after being around him so long he rarely ever picks up his phone often just every now then, but he'll still text me throughout the day to see what I'm up to. we both have opposite work schedules but we somehow get to still go on our dates. This past week he texted me about going for a walk around our local college area and ended up watching a movie cuddling and holding hands during the movie. i told him i wanted to take him to a small town a couple hours outside the city for his day off so we could spend it there and he suggested we stay in a hotel so we could spend the night and cuddle there. What i really guess i am wondering is when do or should we talk about the boyfriend subject? is it still too new? am i over thinking it? how long did it take you to go from dating to bfs? also does the long times to reply to texts just me over thinking? have any of you been with someone who is not big on texting? I'm not really big on texting either i just enjoy talking to him that i like it when he's texts me (selfish and guilty).thank you in advance for the replies and suggestions :)
Looking for same sex(male) partner for fun times...
Hi, my name is Ryan i am a male 22 yrs old looking for another male between the ages of 30-50 for a good time...If you are looking at this and are interested plz call me at (647) 966-8204.Ty
Cute gay African girl does an AHMAZING cover of Taylor Swifts Bad Blood
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8gu5XhyMG-Y
Naked As We Came (movie)
So i just finished watching the movie, and at the end it says that "lily had told elliot everything and he wasnt shocked..." if any of you have seen this movie can you please explain to me what she had said to elliot?
Straight dude here -- would it be totally out of line to x-post a (true) piece I wrote for r/relationships for you guys to critique the erotic details, and tell me whether I'm any good at writing?
First question: is it a common gay fantasy to want to "devirginize" a straight guy's mouth or ass? Or is that just another example of straights thinking we rule the world?Anyway, as I said, I posted about my relaitonship problems over at r/relationships and, to my surprise, received some nice complements on the erotic details of the story. Somebody even went as far as to suggest I try writing my hand at gay erotica. I must admit, the idea intrigued me.Would it be totally spamming this sub if I posted that story here, and got some thoughts about whether I might actually have some talent? As the Penthouse Forum says, "everything you are about to read is true". I have no way to prove that (other than posting my marriage certificate) but if I give this a shot I will be writing fiction anyway.rrrrrrrrr/gays, give me your thougts, and thanks in advance!
How do you get gaydar?
Do they sell it at Walmart? Where can I find one? How much will it set me back?
[Advice]My boyfriend thinks i'm straight what should I do? I'm afraid of sex because I have a small penis.
To start I am a 22 year old male who is currently a virgin. I’ve never been in a relationship with another guy before. I have had quasi-relationships with girls before but I didn’t want sex. I am now in what I consider my first real relationship in my new life. However, I have a big insecurity with sex because of my penis size. I have been feeling more insecure about it since I started college. I'm only a bit over 3 inches long and according to http://ift.tt/1NIhJUB I should be over 5 inches based on my stats. It makes me feel very scared to engage in any sort of physical relationship because of my insecurity. The last 7 months I've been talking to this guy, my now bf. We met at an EDM event. We've become "official" as a couple but we haven't had sex yet. I felt so happy to have a relationship, being close to someone feels good. He is not a virgin though and has been comfy in his sexuality longer than I. Recently we got into an argument because he thinks I might not actually be gay and that I am just experimenting. He said that he thinks I am bi and that being bi is not a real sexual orientation. This was hurtful to me. I am not bisexual. I know I’m gay and I am fully sexually attracted only to men. I don't know if I should explain my insecurities to him. I don't think we can continue as we are. What should I do?
Star Crossed Love? (First Time Post)
This is my first post of this kind...I have never done anything like this, or been so moved to do so. From the moment that I saw his face in an obscure online selfie sub-forum, and looked into his amazing green eyes for the first time, I was beside myself at how I was taken back. I have never had a moment so powerful in my life like this. In an instant I saw something so special that for a long time words escaped me. I saw something that I recognized, deep down to my core, deeper than even my soul, if such a place exists. I recognized a soul that I some how already knew. I saw what seemed like someone familiar that I had known before. In that instant looking at him and into his eyes, it felt like a deep old love as old as the oldest living tree of life that ever lived from the most ancient of lores. One so epic and familiar that it makes Eleven lives seem like a mere blink of an eye. It felt like I found love, family, friend...like I found that part of my soul that I lost and found, it felt like home. He radiates a light from himself that can draw the most sorrowful of lost souls from the darkest realms of any plane of existence. His light is so beautiful and pure, that it is impossible not to weep tears at its existence. But, how can this be? I have neither seen nor spoken to him before, I never knew of his existence inthis life until this moment. What can explain how this is possible to see and feel this, and to do so this powerfully and deeply..... and find this in another? I had to catch myself and my breath and step back. I had to pause and make sure this was not me projecting anything onto him unintentionally. I spent days pondering and just allowing the feelings and thoughts flow and wash over me. I was still struggling to understand how looking at someone that I never knew before in this life could almost bring me to tears; at how much just one short look into his eyes can make me feel this way?I temporarily shifted my focus on that initial overwhelming experience to just wanting to get to know him. I reached out to him, and complimented him on his pics. He replied with an overabundance of positivity flowing through his words and gratitude. I knew from that fist glance that he was unbelievably special and rare....I just knew it deep in my core. It only was strengthened by our conversations that ensued over the last month, as we shared more with each other and about each other. As we slowly began to discover more about each other, it just all flowed so effortlessly, so naturally, so seamlessly. What he does for a living is helping others learn in a certain field, and the comments by his students just only bolster the immensely and incredibly rare and beautiful person and soul that he is. Every comment and review of him as their instructor is just a testament to his core and quality and character. He is a rare and beautiful soul that we need more of on this planet so desperately. It's amazing to see how he shares this with the world, and it obvious that he does what he can to make it a better place. And clearly we are all better for knowing him. He has a gift, one that I don't fully know if he realizes just how much and how powerful it is to others that surround him, and that are drawn to him. We would continue to build our foundation sharing the tid bits of our lives and ourselves, getting to know things bout who we are and what brings us joy and what we appreciate about life and our friends and family, etc. I learned that like many of us have, he had a painful past for many reasons. A lot I still do not know the details of, but look forward one day for him to share those things with me when he feels ready and safe to do so. But, the one thing that stood out most to me is that he is on the heels of a divorce from his ex-husband. My first reaction was one of wanting to reach out and just hug him and make him feel comforted. I already know that he is such an incredibly and powerfully strong person for trying to move forward past something like this, and still look outward and try to be there for everyone else, and make others smile and think of everyone else but his own hurts in this sensitive time. Of course I am human and I also felt a bit of disappointment and my heart sunk a little, knowing from experience this is a really bad tame for even the most well adjusted person. And I, a little selfishly thought to myself... why?? to God, to Fate, to the Universe...why did you make our paths cross like this now? Why now while his heart is in this unreachable place in life? I then also learned that he has a friend and casual lover of sorts that he is with that fills that empty space, and shares intimate time and space with him. Again, my heart sank a little more, and again so confused as why were our paths crossed like this? Why now? I couldn't make sense of this. Despite all this, I just kept my personal feelings temporarily suspended on a shelf. I wanted to purely and genuinely get to know him. As time progressed and we had spent weeks talking and sharing our lives on a social media site, we got to really learn a lot more about each other over time. His ever steadfast positivity and energy and exuberance for life is just amazing. I got to see more pics of him in various daily situations, and this included his family. He is very close with his family. And that initial feeling that I had the first time I laid eyes on him, I felt it again when I saw his mother and his brother and other family members. I saw something again I just couldn't believe that I was feeling. I saw family, I saw love, I saw home. It's nearly impossible to hold back the tears as I write all of this. It's so overwhelming. I don't know whats happening, I could speculate, but that is something I don't want to do. All I know is that when we are not sharing time with together and not connected, something feels so out of balance now. When we are connected and sharing I feel like I have come alive again, each time. When I am connected with him it's surreal, it feels like I have been granted the most amazing blessing from the Divines. He makes me want to be a better man knowing him, I smile more than I ever have knowing him. My life is permanently changed knowing him, I will never be the same again, and this is a beautiful thing. We had the most connected day yet recently sharing music and other things that mean a lot to each of us personally. It was the most amazing time I had to spend with him yet. It's eclipsed a little by some sadness as well as he leaves for a very long extended vacation with his family overseas tomorrow. Though we have not yet met in person, and all of our interactions have been through various online mediums, I will miss him. I know that even though he is technically just a click away, still just the same, I know he will not be available while he is away. I will miss him so much, more than I think he will even realize. I look forward to being able to share time with him again when he returns. I don't know what to make of all of this. I am going to just keep getting to know him, and continue to earn his time and trust and respect and perhaps more one day, and the same vice versa. For now, though it's difficult in some aspects, I am happy to and thankful that we entered into each other's lives, and I unconditionally support him in whatever makes him happy as he moves through his personal process and heals and grows. One thing is for certain, I am happier than I have been in years, smiling like I have not in years, and I am thankful that I can bring the same for him. Despite the vast distance between us, when I am with him it's like an indescribable transcendent experience at times. There is definitely something very special there, though I attempted to in this post, there are no words that can truly and adequately describe the amazing man that he is, and I only hope that there is a future there for us....one day.
I just fingered myself for the first time, dear god the stinging :/
It was in a shower with one and two fingers I did both, and little to no lube. How long does the stinging/pain last because I have a busy schedule today and oh my god. Please help :/
Do we have any idea when the SCOTUS ruling for Obergefell v Hodges (nationwide gay marriage case) will be handed down?
I've heard somewhere during or around June 6, but I'm having trouble sourcing that information to any point. Could anyone link me up with any info? I know it's speculative ish, but it could give me an idea of when I need to buy my bus ticket back to DC (where I attend university) to join in on the celebration.
2015. május 28., csütörtök
Urghh, feeling so frustrated...
I met this guy from my base yesterday whom I find to be very nice and attractive. We have known each other when he just arrived, but that was about the time I finished my service and we didn't get to interact much. Yesterday I got the chance to actually sit with the guy and have a coversation with me for the first time. We talked about how we both want a serious relationship and all that, and I attempted to show him I'm into him. However while I do wish to try something serious with him, I also don't think I'm anywhere near his league. He isn't something special, mind you. Just a normal dude. It's me who doesn't hold a candle in comparison. I find myself pretty boring guy, with no experiences in my life to share, due to having no friends for a large part of my life (my own fault) so I'm not sure what I can provide in a relationship with another guy. Plus, I never felt some strong emotions towards anyone so far, other than a small crush on a straight friend of mine from my base (who was in fact my first) Anyway, I won't get much opportunity to see him around since, well, I don't go out much and we are from different cities too. Hopefully I'll see him in the upcoming Pride Parade here in Tel Aviv, maybe something will happen there. I dunno.
Saw a cute guy on the bus today...
Saw a guy getting on my bus this evening after work, he had the booty and it was fiiiiiine. Conveniently the seat behind him on the bus was free.Sat behind him and saw him using his phone, hoping to see Grindr or Scruff as one of his apps, instead he opens a 9Gag app.Why must the pretty ones be so dumb?
Advice for a teenager
My 18th birthday was today and I'm sad.In late January I had finally accepted the fact that I'm bisexual, and since then I've slowly been coming out to siblings, counselors, and a few friends. I'm having a predicament now.I live in Illinois and I'm fortunate enough to live in a pretty accepting area. Everyone that I've come out to so far has been accepting, loving, and kind. In the fall I'm moving to Northern California for college. All in all, I'm very blessed.But recently, I've been struggling with how to tell my parents. i know that they'll accept it (after a little time) and I know that I'm in a much better position than some of my friends struggling with the same issue. But I just can't do it. I'm not sure why. My relationship with my dad is kinda distant, and I know he'd be disappointed. My mom would probably be fine with it eventually, but I know she'd be a little upset too. They're both fairly religious.I'm just in a very awkward place, and struggling with outwardly communicating it. I have a giant crush on this guy, and he doesn't like guys (Obviously not upset with him or gonna do anything that disrespects him, but it hurts. Kinda like when you like a girl and she doesn't like you back. Makes you ask "what's wrong with me?")Any advice on any of the above? <3TL;DR - Can't come out to parents and stuck in awkward end of high school/beginning of college situations HELP
Where in the Bible does it say that marriage is only between a man and a woman?
It doesn't actually state that anywhere in the Bible.
I'm weird. Help.
I've been reading all these posts about people being in a relationship of the same gender, and I have this kind of feeling, I just want to feel the rush of emotions, of sadness, angriness, happiness, jealousy, which makes me want to have a relationship.
First time. Advice, tips, or pretty much any useful information?
Not sure what to say, so I'm going to tell the story. I will try and keep it short, though.I'm a 25 year old guy living in Northern Canada. I'm a bit heavy set and rather hairy. I've always known I loved men, but I've never been with anyone until recently. I've had boyfriends, but never did much physical other than kissing because I like to take it slow and get to know them and they usually break it off saying I was too slow.A couple months ago, I was browsing an app called Growlr and met this guy. Let's call him Jeff. We've been meeting up for different activities every few days (walks along the water, lunch, movies, etc.) and I've had a lot of fun. I know Jeff is different and I really do believe I'm falling in love. This is where it gets a bit hairy. (no pun intended)On Monday, we talked and agreed to make it official. For the first time in 6 years, I finally had a boyfriend who loves me for me. On Tuesday, I did something completely exhilarating and a bit scary for me… I gave him a blowjob. I had fun, I felt safe and it felt right. I had completely no idea what the hell I was doing, but it made him happy and frankly, I had fun too.Tomorrow night we have a sushi dinner date, and I’m thinking I might be ready for my first time. The reason I’m posting here is to ask for advice and ask some (maybe a ton of) questions from someone who has no real idea.I guess my first question is, am I moving too quickly? Would I be scaring him away if I told him I was ready to have him make love to me?My second question concerns preparations. What should I do to prepare myself for my first time? I know all about the “more lube is better” rule, and I know that I should stretch myself out so I don’t tear. I’m just not sure what the best way to go about this is.I guess my third question is relating to my own sanity. Am I overthinking this and worrying too much? Am I right to be scared, or should I calm down and take things as they roll?Any guidance or advice you guys have would be very welcome. I’m using a throw away, as Jeff is on Reddit, and knows my username and I don’t want him to know I’m so confused (or downright scared) of this. I will be monitoring this account until I go to bed, so I should be able to respond for at least 5 hours or so.Edit: Edited formatting so it looked decent.
Dating Advice and Gay Friends
Essentially, I know a good friend of this guy's who thought we might be good for each other. He added me on Facebook and told me to add this guy through him. We went out to the bar a couple times, and were getting along pretty well. He never made any moves, was always really polite and offered to pay for my drinks a couple times (which I declined, but thanked him for), and was always really sweet. He'd text me after we both went home to wish me sweet dreams, the next morning as well. I was really excited, and honesty surprised that I was feeling something for him. I'm not at all a romantic; I'm usually more reserved and kind of unattached. But he was different.Well, I get to this cookout and I know basically no one there. This guy I've been seeing makes very little effort to introduce me to his friends, basically tells me everyone's name and then just sort of ignores me. Which, you know, I could be okay with. Maybe he was embarrassed or just not a great host or something. But I was there for about six hours, and he himself ended up saying very little to me at all. I tried to talk to him alone, I tried to talk to his friends, but I was getting the cold shoulder from everyone there. They were all being really catty anyway, making fun of each other (playfully) and then people who weren't there (not so playfully), and all they could talk about was their plans to go to this concert coming up, a day trip to an amusement park (neither of which I was involved in), and inside jokes. Which struck me as not only really tacky, but put me in a position where I could either sit quietly and listen, or jump in and change the topic, which struck me as very rude.So, I'm starting to just chalk all this up to a waste of time, getting ready to blame social anxiety, text this guy I've been seeing and politely excuse myself, when he starts cutting a cake. He offers me a piece, I decline, and one of his friends makes a joke about watching my figure or something. This guy I've been seeing makes a joke about making me breakfast in the morning, and I just get pissed. Idk why, but something about him popping out of totally ignoring me to make a joke about fucking me made me not only totally lose interest in him, but made me really upset. I just got up and left. I didn't know what to say, so I just walked out of the party.This post started out as a question, but I guess all I have to ask is am I being unreasonable, or was this really a shitty thing to say/do?
If my son ever comes out as gay, I'm kicking him out of the house...
...for a few hours while I organize a coming out party.
Anyone vacation to Israel?
I'm thinking of vacationing to Tel Aviv but I'm open to anywhere in Israel, since it's the only area in that part of the world that treats its citizens like humans. Anyway, anyone have any experience there?
Thoughts on gay bathhouses?
I'm staying in Saarbrucken Germany for a month (June-July) and i did a little research and found out that there are a few bathhouses in the city. I've always been curious but a little hesitant to try going to one. I've hooked up with a few guys but never had sex, and i've heard bathhouses in Europe are a lot nicer and safer than the ones here in the US. Is this true? Is it worth it? Is it safe? Any good/bad experiences? I'm 20 and out at school, this is a throw-away account for reasons.
I'm losing weight but my biceps are growing bigger!!!
Can somebody explain me way. I hate my biceps since I was a kid especially when I entered puberty, so do I hate my shoulders because they don't look as feminine. So I began to do weight losing diet and I did lose around 5-6kg It made my hips larger ;D however for some reason my biceps grew D;. Can somebody explain to me why?? I'm loosing my mind!!!!!
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kattints ide.
If my son ever comes out as gay, I'm kicking him out of the house...
...for a few hours while I organize a coming out party.
2015. május 27., szerda
Please sign/share my petition to the University of Dallas regarding homophobia in a school that claims to be loving and welcoming of backgrounds that differ from the Catholic faith. They either need to live up to their promise or actively discourage prospective gay students and allies from attending
http://ift.tt/1QbYGBi
Gay, bi, or otherwise attracted to men? Living with a disability as well? How do other gay men treat you? Stories welcome.
So eventually I'm going back on the dating scene, which naturally includes Grindr, Scruff and Facebook stalking. The thing is that I have a seizure disorder that, frankly, kicks my ass sometimes. When I leave my home, I walk with a cane in order to get back home if I start seizing. It's a pretty visible thing.If you have a disability, how do men treat you? I think I know the answer, but it'll still be nice to hear from someone else.Do you do anything to ease a potential boyfriend, buddy, partner, etc. into being comfortable with your disability? Do you hide it (if you can)? Do you mention it upfront? Is it something in between?Or, if none of those questions interest you, do you have a fun story?
My dad is gay...
Long story made short. My mother married my father. They had 3 children. My mother found out my father was screwing around with men. Obviously they divorced. I feel like this caused major emotional issues with my brothers and i. Obviously my mother too. I myself am also gay. Anyone else out there have this sort of past?
Funny Russian music video: Hot blonde chick at the wrong gym (Vera Brezhneva - "Mamochka")
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ps_Kqeo_tvU
Why are so many large corporations support gay marriage and LGBT rights?
Back around 2009, I remember reading an article explaining how there were corporations trying measures to market to LGBT customers or attract LGBT workers to their workforce. I thought it was a bit interesting, but it seemed rather limited.Fast forward to 2013, and it seems most Fortune 500 companies are LGBT allies, supporting gay marriage and having pro-LGBT policies in the workforce. Chairmen of major corporations were on the board of the Boy Scouts of America, and were key in changing the policy on LGBT youth in the organization. Threats to pull out the Super Bowl and other job centers were a major factor in stoping the Arizona RFRA bill later that year. More recently, "voting with their feet" from large groups and corporations was the response to Indiana's RFRA law.90% of fortune 500 companies offer protection based on sexual orientation and other LGBT inclusive factors. Don't like the advance of LGBT rights and want to boycott supporting corporations? You might as well cut yourself off from the economy To be honest though, there are many anti-LGBT people would love to retreat from society and form their own homesteads or self-sufficient communities. I actually don't mind that idea, it seems very win-win for everyone involved. Plus the bigots would likely be cutting their carbon footprint. ;DI could go on, but I want to know: Why are large corporations so supportive of LGBT rights (which is good!)? What do they have to gain from that position? Does anyone here have insight into what happened when those corporations made the decision be pro-LGBT?While it's good that corporations are pro-LGBT, it's bad because they would not be allies on other issues. I think most of us here are progressives of some sort, or otherwise against plutocracy. Many of care about the environment, workers rights, overturning Citizens United, caring for the poor and disadvantaged, and other issues that would put us at odds with business interests. Don't like the TPP and want to vote with your dollar? You might as well seperate yourself from the economy Move to the boonies, form a self-sufficient community, cut your carbon footprint, try not to run into the bigots' community, have a gay old time in the woods.There are other issues too, like category killers (Wal-Mart, Home Depot, etc) versus small businesses. I would hate to hear a false dichotomy among the lines of "Do you support the anti-family/anti-human corporations or the bigoted mom-and-ops?". I do care about small businesses, and it's upsetting when you some of them are bigoted in some way.
One night stand with a guy in a relationship?
Okay, I went to a party recently and the guy hosting it asked my gay friend if he wanted to do stuff. He declined and referred him to me (not knowing he had a gf [I didn't know either]). He said I was cute and I found him cute as well. So we did stuff (not sex) and he told me he had a girlfriend and that he was "gonna dump her anyway". He's not dumped her and I don't know where I stand morally. Advice?Thanks! <3
Open discussion on bullying, sexuality, gender identity, and suicide
The following post contains mentions of suicide, slurs, and homophobic bullying.I have an "LGBTQ Studies" class this fall, a rarity in the state of Wyoming. I have the required books, and they seem to focus on gay males, which is less than surprising, but very disappointing.One of the books I've been assigned has just stated that all suicides that resulted from homophobic bullying have been that of males, either those who self-identified as gay or those who had not, but were labeled that way by their peers for lack of "masculine" behavior. However, and unfortunately, I find that hard to believe.I recall at least two cases where a girl who was bullied for being "not feminine enough" took her own life. Recently, trans women have made news, as well. These tragedies must have all occurred since 2012, when the assigned book, "Dude, You're a Fag," was updated and republished in a second edition, or more likely, have been ignored by author C.J. Pascoe in a case of lesbian and trans erasure in alignment with this course. Nevertheless, he claims that teen male suicides may be the result of "effemiphobia," or hatred of effeminate men.Surely there have been other cases from before 2012 (or 2007, the original publication) of women taking their lives over bullying about their "masculine" or "un-feminine" behavior.I do not intend to trivialize their deaths in any way, and I'd be glad to learn that there haven't been many, reinforcing Pascoe's claims to any extent. Google searches haven't found more than one case, and it wasn't the one I remember from years back. I may not be searching with the correct terms.Furthermore, I would like to attempt an open conversation on these topics, which a search here seems to indicate hasn't happened in almost three years, oddly enough, when this book was republished. Even then, it seemed to indicate that the problem was mostly the "G" rather than "LGBTQ."Is the role of masculinity truly to blame in the suicide deaths of Tyler Clementi, Seth Walsh, Billy Lucas, Eric Mohat, Carl Hoover, Jamey Rodemeyer, Jamie Hubley, and Kenneth J. Weishuhn Jr., among too many others?What about Sinead Taylor or Leelah Alcorn? And what other names need to be in this list?Finally, what role do feminism, the media, The Trevor Project, the It Gets Better Campaign, and the Make It Better Campaign, among others, play in LGBTQ suicide?Feel free to share personal stories, as well. When the class begins, I may contact you to ask if I may include your experiences in papers. I will not use any of your information with your express permission.
Any gay guys here who suffer from Phimosis like I do?
How do you deal with it? I feel kinda embarrased about my situation, and feel I'm disappointing my partners (never something serious to begin with) because I make a bad sex, etc.
Where can I find good erotic gay stories?
Whenever I do Google searches, I find sites that are full of very badly written and/or pedophile stories.Where can I go to find well-written stories about adults?
2015. május 26., kedd
Trying to figure out something and I don't want to come off as an offensive twit
my buddy and i where discussing something. We wanted to ask what is the deal with the gay dialect. As straight men we are confused about how a change like that happens. We know not every gay man does it bug those who do, why? Thanks and if I came off rude I apologize.
Thoughts on "no homo"
I'm curious what you all think of the phrase "nohomo." I've heard it used out in the wild with people I don't know as well with people I do know (both those that know I'm gay and otherwise). Are you offended by it? And why do you think it's a somewhat common phrase?
Hey r/ainbow! I make art about wrestling and recently had a artist spotlight on The Advocate/Huffpo/Vice, and want to share my work!
Hey /r/ainbow ! Recently I had a spotlight feature on The Advocate and have had work on HuffPo Gay Voices, Vice, and more! I recently graduated and presented my thesis work which included a 26 feet tall image of a wrestler!I'm new to reddit but wanted to share my work on wrestling and its relationship with the LGBT community at large! My website is benmcnutt.com, my blog is benmcnutt.tumblr.com, and I have a prints page where you can buy work for whatever price you want to!I'd love to discuss it, share it, etc with you all!!!
[Thought] Has the Westboro baptist hype maybe helped the LGBT community
I can't help but wonder if the countless marches and picketing from the Westboro Baptist church hype actually made people realize how outdated it is to hate people for being different. I hear way more westboro jokes than I hear gay jokes now lol.
How to come out to my future college roommate?
So I will be a college freshman in the fall, and I already have been matched with a roommate. We just accepted each other as roommates today. We have been texting and he seems cool, but I have no idea how accepting he would be if I tell him that I am gay. I would tell him that I am gay now, but I haven't come out to anyone, including my parents yet. I was planning on coming out to them in a few months. I don't want the first person I come out to to be someone that I have never met. But at the same time, it would be kind of a dick move to tell him in a few months that I am gay. What should I do? I don't feel comfortable coming out to my parents yet (not that they wouldn't be accepting, I just don't feel ready). At the same time, if I tell him that I am gay now, that would be bad because I should have told him before we accepted each other. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
Do you, personally, find this homophobic;
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Gay 16 year old guy in London, best way to connect with people?
I've tries using apps like Hot or Not, but most 'connections' end after a week of sexting. How can I begin to create proper relationships with people?
Trouble with my parents...
Hi I am a 16 y/o boy, I'm having problem coming out to my parents tho I have been close to doing it they always made some sick gay joke and then I feel bad, now I don't know how to come out and how they will react. I don't even know what to say. Plz help!Sorry for bad English.
Single life
So I'm probably freaking out over nothing but I feel like I haven't been able to find other guys to hang out with and possibly start a relationship with. I'm only 18 and in college so I might be worrying a little too early. I'm just wondering how some of you met your significant other? Thanks for any advice and hope you guys are having a good day
I am a straight guy that is curious to experiment
I am straight male and I am 24 years old and have recently been curious about experiment with guys, but not really sure if it's something normal because it feels wrong to have these curious thoughts but I am wanting to meet a guy and experience this for the first time to see if this is something I am really into, I have always thought about how a penis would feel I'm my mouth because getting head feels so good so this is something I am wanting to try. Is this weird or normal?
Please call me for nasty fun
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on being single
hi. first of all i am writing this here because of the anonymity; i hate to admit, although i guess the other person knows, that i have fallen hopelessly in love with another person, who is 6 years my junior. you have a very remote chance of knowing me and i'm fine with that.my name is eriond. i'm 27 and i'm gay. i have never been in a relationship before because as high school taught me, i am not that attractive. obviously i have self confidence issues but that, i think, is a story for another time.where to begin? oh right i was telling you how i have never been in a relationship before. well that is not entirely accurate; i have had a girlfriend before but never a boyfriend. so there i haven't had a boyfriend before.even though the world has drilled into my subconscious that i am less physically attractive that majority of its occupants, i have had my fair share of "suitors": people who are mostly in it for sex (not to brag but i have a good physique; i jog mostly everyday for 5 km, do 5 sets of various forms of sit-ups, 40 reps each, and other stuff). mostly that people who have approached me came from the gym, when i was still going to one; some from a local gay bar when it was still open. but whenever sex was over, i would lose my taste for the person. i dunno why, perhaps because i have been let down by a lot of people i genuinely liked in the past that as a sort of defence mechanism i don't expect a real relationship to spring up from a mere "booty call", or maybe i'm not that into those people.years passed and i reached my final year in medical school. during the interim, i just managed to hook up with 2 other medical students, both a year lower than me and some random guys i met at bars. this is when fate decided to play with me.let me go back a little. at the start of my internship, as with the start of every academic year, i look for cute new medical students. but i am merely doing it for the view since i have never approached persons unless they show interest first (remember i have self-esteem issues). i noticed this cute little guy who had a little moustache, who kept on talking fluently in english (you got me, i'm asian), who was also very noisy. as luck would have it, he also dormed at my dorm. other than the occasional glimpses that i had of him there, i sometimes also see him at our local coffee shop (during the times that i am not knocked out from 24 hours of duty and i feel like studying). but nothing happened between us. this would continue for the next 10 months.during one of my post duty days (ie that is the day after i have done 24 hours, that is 7 am-7 am, with my afternoon being free that day), i decided to jog around the campus. as i was coming inside my dorm, i noticed the same cute guy, who we'll call steve, about to enter as well.he reached the door to our dormitory hallway first and held the door open for me. honestly i wasn't expecting anything so after the customary "thank you" i walked towards my room. i noticed that steve kept on glancing at me, so i decided to give it a shot. "hey you're first year med right" i said to him. "yeah. and you're an intern?" was his reply. i told him that i was. we then started talking. i asked him where his room was, out of curiosity. "it's room 2**. i'm sharing that with 3 other guys", steve said. since i wasn't really expecting anything, i thought that this might be the reason he decided to strike up a conversation, to see if i will be leaving the dorm this year so he can put a reservation on it. so i asked him, "i'm at room 22*. it's a single room. if you have plans of transferring rooms next year, wanna see what a solo room looks like?"steve agreed. still dripping sweat i "toured" him around my room; showed him my mini-library, my treadmill that i barely use, and the myriad other stuff on my room. steve immediately jumped on my bed. this actually pissed me off a lot because, being a little bit of a neat freak i never sit on my bed or chair unless i have bathed. but he was cute so i decided to cut him some slack.minutes wore on. we talked about school, that he is a member of the dance club and other stuff. meanwhile, my sweat has dried on my shirt; i didn't change because i thought he would just take a look then leave. when i noticed that he won't be going anytime soon, i decided to take a bath.remember that i dorm by myself so i am used to entering my bathroom naked and leaving it naked. hence, i forgot to get my boxers and lotion before going in the bathroom. plus i wanted to see if i can spark his interest (haha). so i left the bathroom only with a towel barely hugging my waist to get my stuff. steve looked up from his ipad then continued playing. i thought to myself, "what is this guy really up to?" when i finished dressing, we talked some more, he showed me videos of him dancing at competitions, and he did a small dance routine in my room.what happened next surprised me. as he finished browsing his facebook using my laptop he as, "do you have movies here?". again, wanting to test him i said, "i have, but i don't think they are ones you'll like. "why?", he asked. Laughing nervously i said, "because they are mostly porn". "oh i love porn! let me see", steve said. "well," i hesitantly replied, "they are gay porn. you see i'm gay. haha!" "oh" he replied. after a minute of awkward silence we again continued talking about mundane stuff.he then said, "ok, just out of curiosity, let me see these vids of yours". so i grabbed hold of my laptop, opened the well hidden folder containing my stash, then played it. i left him to his own devices and grabbed my pharmacology book. after about a minute he turned the video off, then resumed playing with his ipad.10 pm arrived. when not busy i usually sleep around this time so i can get up at 5:30 am. "i'll just go wash up and prepare for bed" i told steve, as some sort of dismissal. he said, "ok". my perplexity just grew.when i finished i told him, "i'm about to sleep now". "ok, will you be closing the lights?" he asked. "yeah but i leave my tv open. helps me sleep better". as i turned off the light he put away his ipad then laid on my bed. i laid next to him then asked, "so what now?". "depends on you" he said. "want me to close the tv?". "yup" steve said.as we laid there in near total darkness i looked at him, he was looking at me too. he has very thick eyebrows, full lips, a lean body and a naughty smile. he really is my type. i kissed him. he kissed back. after that awkward but passionate first kiss i told him, "so this was your agenda. you should have told me sooner, saved us more time. haha" he just laughed.he had sex after. maybe it was because my last was before internship, but i was one of the best sex that i've had in a while. when we finished, he invited me to bathe with him. he then continued to sleep in my room.i am a sucker for snuggling. for me that is better than sex. sharing the warmth of another, embracing each other, i missed this so much. it was one of the best nights that i have had.morning came, and with it reality. before he left he told me that he added me on facebook. after approving him, we exchanged numbers. i was thinking then, "God if this is the reason why i have been so lonely the past years, thank you".i am not a person to text overly much, medicine demands so much. but if i text you that means i have an important thing to say or that you are important to me.3 days passed. steve and i barely saw each other. he seldom replied to my texts too. i know it's only been a short while, but i have been crushing on him since last year. i was a little bit devastated.then as i was doing make up duty for an absence, steve texted me asking what i was doing. i told him that i was on duty but would be leaving in an hour. since i haven't eaten dinner, i decided to invite him. "if you don't mind, can you just buy be food? i wanna eat in your room" steve said. "ok. what do you want?". "just chicked. pay you here. thanks bro", was his reply.the ER was very toxic that night, i ended up leaving at 10, an hour after my promise to steve. since no malls were still open, i decided to invite him at a nearby food truck.as we drove there, we talked about mundane stuff. i was late so i decided to treat him to dinner. plus i really like him. after dinner we drove back to our dorm. he said, "i'm sorry but could you drop me off here, i don't want rumors spreading". "i understand, you're not out".afterward, we met at my room and we again had sex.to my dismay, he decided to leave early. he was apparently having allergies and preferred to stay at the comfort of his room. after a good bye kiss, which apparently would be our last, he left.i did not sleep immediately. i spent the next half hour looking at a picture i took of him while he was sleeping then i prayed to God to please let him be the one.days passed. messages went unanswered. i grew sadder by the minute. finally i could not bare it any longer. when i chanced upon him being online on facebook i decided to ask him this:"hi steve, i don't want to make this seem like an order or anything, but i need to know, where is this thing between us going: a) nowhere. last saturday was the last b) same as before, just casual you-know-what c) i want to continue to find out d) other (specify pls) i'm 26. it may not seem like a big age diff for you, but i think i'm past the period in my life when i only like playing around. you know i find you physically attractive. but other than that, i find your company pleasant. so that's it. i told you before that i am a prideful person; know that composing this message has been difficult for me. hence, i would appreciate a decent reply. good day"after a day, he replied:"eriond, the question is, what do you want to happen between us? I'm open to the idea of being friends seeing as I don't think we can have a relationship as of now. I don't think I'm ready for that level of commitment and seeing as I'm entering my summer break in a while as well as your graduating, I don't think a serious relationship would be feasible for us."Let's just be friends eriond, if that's alright with you"as you can imagine it, i was pretty heartbroken. another person to add to my long list of people who rejected me. haha. i thought i was old for this but i cried after duty hours, as i lay awake thinking of him, his laugh, his smile, the way he talks, his lips, his body. but i didn't give up hope entirely. but i was then having my doubts as to his real reason.the results of who would be progressing to 2nd year was released. previously he told me that he is crushing on this girl and that if she passed, he would court her. i believed him, just not that much. i also thought that if i was competing with a girl i have more chance since apparently he is bisexual and bisexuals are just a few inches away from being full-blown gay.still i was lonely so i decided to hook up again with a nurse who i went out with last year (again a story for another time). steve and i were still chatting. thinking that he would be more into me if there was some competition, i told him about me hooking up with the nurse. but the effect wasn't one i expected. steve being competitive decided to tell me the truth: that he is in reality waiting for another med student from another school whom he met before he was first year med. apparently he and this guy would go on regular dates whenever their schedules permit it, and that he is just waiting for med school to finish so they can finally be an item.again, another blow to my ego. when asked steve had the decency to admit that he was just horny that day and that he was a sucker for sweaty lean guys. he apparently gave "us" a chance but we reportedly have "too little" in common. i thought, "too little? we are both med, we both have a sarcastic sense of humor, we both hate stupidity, we both practice the same martial art, is that too little?". again the reality of the world caught up to me, that people who are gifted with more "attractiveness" tend to get what they want (i looked it up, steve's guy is also kinda good looking).currently i am reviewing for my board exam. good thing too, i don't get to think about steve that much. this is one of those nights that i feel lonely.thanks for reading! i hope you found my story entertaining. any comment will be welcome. :)
Why Star's "Brad Pitt: Secret Bisexual" is new and important
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWkWrqoN_3I&feature=youtu.be
Am I thinking to hard again? WARNING: Wall of text. NSFW probably
Hello Reddit, I’d like to thank you ahead of time for yet again helping me figure another part of my life. I’d also like to apologize ahead of time for offending anyone either with the things I say, or with the length of this post. Let me start by saying that I’m a 22 year old living in central Texas. The reason I’m here is because I have a very analytical mind set and question everything I come across, sometimes several times, to see how I feel about it, or what my opinion is. Late in January, I took some acid and an idea was born; an idea to question my sexuality. Previously, I never questioned that I was straight, which is probably how this came up now. I also think it prudent to mention that I now currently identify as pansexual.It began by me being forced to admit to myself that I could no longer deny that I have been attracted to men in the past, though very few. In the process of admitting this, I also had to admit that I am attracted to women. The issue is that I have empirical evidence supporting the latter, but not the former. Is it just curiosity or confusion? The next stage of questioning began after a dear friend of mine passed just days after this began. He was bisexual, but I had never expressed these feelings with him, having not really brought them up with myself before the trip. I noticed that I missed him very much, almost like I didn’t get to share myself with him, or experience him. How could I have become attached to a person I didn’t really know well? Were these feelings just a residual effect of his passing so suddenly? At one point, while looking at r/gonewild, I decided I would post something and see what women thought of my body, not considering that no one on reddit is a female. After a very quick search, I discovered r/bulges and promptly posted a [picture]( http://ift.tt/1LByzm9)**NSFW**. After reviewing the comments, I was astounded, embarrassed, flattered, and shamed all at the same time. This is probably a good time to mention that, while I have always supported homosexuality, I found the thought of two guys having sex somewhat….appalling. For instance, I would try to picture myself maybe sucking a dick, or screwing another guy, but it just felt wrong, or dirty or something. Maybe this was just me not used to that idea at all. Maybe it was just me caught up in a misguided idea of what it would mean to be gay. Maybe it was just me rejecting it because there was no romantic connection. I Don’t really know haha. Sometimes I would catch myself looking in the mirror and wearing something that I “didn’t like” and I would say something like “wow I look gay”. Why would I choose that particular adjective? Is it the social stigma of the word gay that I grew up with where it means “stupid”? Or is that simply the word I have been most attributing myself with of late? I was drinking with a friend at the bar about a month ago and was enjoying some tasty craft beer listening to his story about potato guns when he was younger. Rest assured, I’m not attracted to this man at all, and he is most assuredly not gay, yet mid-story, my brain almost literally yelled “IM GAY” in my head, which I quickly followed up, again in my head, with “that’s a hell of a statement to make without any consideration” and I have to wonder what that means for me. On one hand I have to consider that that is my “true self” speaking, yet on the other, I have to consider that I have been having a debate in my head about whether or not I’m gay, or at the very least sexually attracted to men, for some time and that it might have just been a random outburst derived from my previous 4+months of debate (I have tried saying it out loud in the past for comparison to saying “I’m straight”, but the results were inconclusive (almost conveniently some of you might say)). Another possibility is that sexual deprivation potentially plays a role in this. The last time I had sex was in November (perhaps it is necessary to mention that it was with a female) and before that, sex was pretty uncommon for me, as I had a hard time bringing up conversations of romanticism with people. Perhaps not seeing results with women led me to seek out alternative means of fulfillment? I know myself to be something of a late bloomer, so perhaps this is just the simple curiosity most people experience in their teens, or perhaps I know what I want. I ask this hear because I want to hear other people’s opinions on my thoughts. I understand that the only real way to test it out is to kiss another guy and go from there, but I have been reluctant to take this step as I haven’t decided what it means for me, which as I type this sounds silly because it’s not like it would be the end of the world if I kissed a dude and wasn’t gay after all haha.So if you guys (or girls) would read this and let me know what you think, that’d be great! Also if you could do it without making me feel like a total idiot, that would be nice.
What is the proper way to respond to gay hate?
In regards to a recently deleted post related to a user whom, showed great hatred, I ask what is the reasonable response to said hatred?"Have you ever thought of how the bible speaks of love and care for his children and yet, you leave your own comfort-zone to hate upon a entire group of people for choices they choose to live by with an almost blind rage. I of course will in no way persuade you with such a simple paragraph, and while I ask for your understanding and reconsideration I fear you may not care. People tend to be quite set in stone on their mindsets. So I simply ask you to take a moment to recognize the anger that you feel, fueled by a religion that begs for peace and care. Is unjustified, and that at the least you should at least look into your own desires from your religion, and the outcome of your fear and hatred, and look for a more constructive way to speak your mind to the opposing side of your own ideals.Thank you for taking the time to read this and I hope that you may learn to benifit from the reconsideration of your current outlook to those around you"
2015. május 25., hétfő
Gayporn Police Cat has investigated the disturbance and issued an "all clear" alert. [Definitely NSFW]
http://ift.tt/1LDOYHf'm-in-love-with-you-40597.html
My favourite singer just released his music video for a song about the lack of gay role models.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZQ_9eebry0
Selling used mens underwear
22 year old uncut twink selling used underwear. messageme for more info.
Gay is OK.
So, I was high as fuck. Worth to note is that I consider myself bisexual.I started to make out with this guy, and we went on a adventure. Fueled by cocaine and speed. At the end of the evening we sucked eachothers dicks, I remember it feeling slightly weird but totally OK. I didn´t come, so he offered his butthole. I fucked the butt pretty hard and came.We both fell asleep.. But in the morning I felt him trying to finger my ass. I told him I didn´t like that, but he tried more.He seemed dissapointed as I left with a firm NO...Is there rules for Gay buttsex?
Meeting someone for the first time
So tomorrow I'm meeting someone for the first time. I'm 16 and they r 15 and I am going to his house. We r gonna watch a movie. I'm so nervous that I will act stupid or something. Any advice?
Round and Fluffy
Hey. I'm a 19 year old guy who is a bit on the heavier side of the scale. I have a pretty low self esteem when it comes to my weight and I was just wondering if there are gays who like men who are heavy? Or do most men like fit men? Thanks.
Where the Bears Are
This is an awesome mini series on YouTube. There are a group of gay guys who get involved in murder mystery. One of my gay friends showed me it and it is hilarious.
I need some help. I'm really confused...
So I'm an 18 year old male and I'm just really confused about who I am..I went through the struggles of trying to figure out my sexuality when I was going through the early part of my teenage years. I would masturbate to pictures of guy and to gay porn, even as far back as I was 9-10. I would always get uncomfortable around the guys underwear section when shopping for clothes and would always stare at the guys packages. I came to the terms that I was gay two years ago and came out to my closest friends and momTwo years later, I'm just confused on my sexuality/uncomfortable in my skin.. I feel strong sexual attraction to guys and like to makeout with guys... but I just feel weird about it. When I see I guy who is attractive, I notice, but for some reason, in my head I feel like i'm supposed to say "oh i'm gay, that guy is attractive". It's really hard to explain how I feel, but it's like I don't identify as gay or anything, but I'm attracted to guys..Has anyone else felt like this before? Any advice is appreciated
How do you deal with heteronormativity in the workplace? What are some good ways to deflect it?
I work in a pretty male-dominated workplace, mostly with those guys in high school you tried to avoid. You know, with the snapbacks, way too much axe body spray, and treat girls like crap. Deep down I know they're not bad guys, but they throw around way too many homophobic comments and slurs for me to feel comfortable coming out to them, and I've worked here since long before I came out to anybody (including myself) so they know I've dated girls in the past, so they assume I'm straight, which means they try to talk about girls with me, ask me about my sex life, expect me to gawk at girls with them, and I'm just not interested.Having come back from university, I'm now back on the regular schedule with other guys my age, and they're gonna expect me to have stories about all the girls I've fucked and such, and I'm gonna need some new moves to deflect the attention from myself, and just deal with overall shitty homophobia after the liberal, accepting world that was university.Any suggestions?
2015. május 24., vasárnap
I'm scared and feeling very alone
About a month ago I discovered I was gay. I'm 17 years old and i live in south Texas, and there is almost no gay people here. It's very frowned upon, and I can't help but feel attracted to men. I went to Houston last week and met someone, he was really cute but he didn't actually live there, and when he left he kissed me on the cheek but didn't give me a number or anything. Right now only 3 people know, but if anyone else found out i would be in a ton of trouble with pretty much everyone. Last year when someone came out as gay they were beaten pretty bad, so that doesn't really help with my situation. I really wish I could just meet someone and just let them hold me. If anyone has any advice, it's very much appreciated. Thank you so much.
Looking for Stories Like This:
http://ift.tt/1HFyjli love stories about guys becoming muscular alpha males. I was wondering if anyone knew any more like the link above? Thanks!
This song changed my life
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uTnDLRnXXH4When I was a sophomore in college I saw this musical with my best friend, and this song hit me like a ton of bricks. I watch this video every time I'm feeling down or need some affirmation."Life's not worth a damn, till you can say, ' Hey world, I am what I am' "
Sex with a Professor (but not mine). Confused on what to do.
Okay, guys.First of all, I'm not sure if this is even the right place to post this, but i'm in need of some advice. Recently since coming home for the summer (college student), I met up with a cool dude, hooked up a few times, and we have become basically a friends with benefits. We're both discreet about our situations (work/family) so we haven't talked about anything too personal (ie: work). I recently decided on transferring colleges to the one in my hometown for several reasons (parents, cheaper, etc.), and while getting a tour from my friend, i noticed a picture of my FWB on the wall under a list of professors. Now that i know this, I'm sorta stuck on where to go. He doesn't know that I know and he also doesnt know that I'm transferring to the college he works at. I scanned the school's policy and it seems to me that he wouldnt lose his job because "relations" are only prohibited between a professor and his/her own students.So here's the question, do i come outright and tell him the next time we meet up and let him decide on what to do, or do I pretend like I don't know until the end of summer and then let it out then.TLDR; I have a FWB situation with a professor but not mine. I'm transferring to the school he happens to work at and I'm unsure on how to tell him this.EDIT: As an added piece of info: We would be in two completely different departments being that i am a STEM major and he teaches in a Liberal Arts.
Personality Compatibility (bottom/bottom)
So I met this super hot guy at a club Friday night. Who knew male cheerleaders were so ripped; the kind of abs u just want to worship. Anywho, I'm kinda new to the scene (35/m) and keep getting involved with other femme guys (I can be too) who, of course usually turn out to be bottoms (I'm mostly a bottom but u never know). Am I doing this wrong (square peg round hole)? I can definitely be seduced by a top but keep finding more in common with other bottom types. To be blunt and to the point- is it possible for both of us to be fairly submissive and it actually work long term, or is that bottom on bottom crime so to speak? Worried I'll fall hard for someone but the wrong type of someone. Wondering if two bottoms, or tops for that matter, are common and workable for a relationship? Amateur question, but I really need some community guidance...thanks in advance for the kind responses.
Watching some gay love videos on YT...
Made me depressed as fuck. I feel so lonely... and while I do have the occasional sex, I mostly do it to compensate for the lack of intimacy and warmth with another man. :(
Why can't I find my other half?
I'm a 16 m and I want someone to love me. I feel like I try to hard for relationships that don't exist. I live in Iowa so can people tell me how or where to find other guys. I just want to love someone. And I want to feel loved by them. I use meet me but somehow I get all the people that have serious family problems. I just want someone who I can cuddle with. I feel so lonely and I go to omegle even though I know I shouldn't. Its just how people make me feel. I've had a lot of issues growing up and now all I want is someone who I can love. So can the people of reddit please give me some advice. I already use meet me.
Gay Militia
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to live in a place where gays a were not only welcome but they ruled?! Where being gay was the norm of the land! Well sadly that place doesn't exist and for too long we have been stepped on, used, and not been giving the respect that we deserve as humans. I think its time we stand up and do something about it! We are the makers of our own happiness, if we want a place we are always welcome a place where kids can grow up knowing that it's ok to be different then we will have to quite simply take it . Know I am not by anyways suggestion that this will be a Back Woods we hate the government club because its not. We have a plan in place that doesn't involve messing up our standing in America, we plan to make our utopia elsewhere. This may said like a crazy idea to some and maybe it is, but its better to actively try and better your lives then to do nothing at all. If you have anyway question at all let me know. Sorry for the typos :)
It hurts to surpress my feelings, literally
Ever since I was young, my 4 other siblings kept bullying me calling me gay. I wasn't even out, not even now. I had to deal with that every single day, and I just kept my anger, sadness, deep inside me.When I stepped into highschool, I was bullied by my classmates, calling me gay and so on, and I was a loner. I had not many friends in the first year, gradually making some friends and no one to talk to through my second year.In my third year, last year, I found a friend similar to me, except she was a bi. I told her everything of me. She was my friend since the first year, and I felt I could trust her. I felt a little bit at ease of telling her.Throughout all these years, I have encountered so much emotional pain, from everywhere. Its hurting me so much. My stomach feels like its going to explode. Frequent headaches, mostly felt in the right side, in the evenings.Now my last year at highschool, its all but of bad memories. My whole life is of bad experience. I feel like everyone hates me. Typing this out makes me better temporarily, but it'll help and a cat would do too, if I had one...
2015. május 23., szombat
A rainbow doesn't choose to be a rainbow... (Garfunkel & Oats) [Congrats Ireland!]
https://youtu.be/nZxiHvIbJ1g
My Story
I know this might not be the most appropriate place to look for help in my situation or to let people read my story, but whatever. I'm going to tell it anyways because I'd like to share it.I'm in high school - a junior. My second semester began back in January and I noticed someone in my class who acted very feminine-like. I had a vibe that he was gay, even though I was "straight" at the time. Regardless, I think I sort of fell in love with him once I set my eyes on him. I had always sort of questioned my sexuality as a kid because relationships with girls never really worked out well with me. When I suddenly fell in love with this guy, I knew that I was either bi or gay. And now I'm starting to think I'm more gay than bi, but that's for later.I looked into getting to know the guy. His name was Hunter. I had a feeling he liked me as well because he'd look at me quite a lot for no reason. We got to know each other after I followed him on Instagram and added him on Kik. We began texting each other every day, and then we would Snapchat back and forth for days. We had a Snapchat-streak of around 24 days and we were each other's #1 best friends on Snapchat. But that's besides the point, again.We got super close. We're pretty much best friends now. After Joey Graceffa came out as gay, I decided to buy his book - 2 copies, because Hunter was also in love with him and I knew that it would make him happy. And boy, I was right.I've told him before that I'm in absolute love with him but he said that he only saw me as a friend. I'm hoping and praying to some higher power out there that he is saying this only because he doesn't want to be very open about having a gay relationship at school, regardless of how accepting I am of it.Ever since we've gotten close, I've acted a lot... different. He makes me completely happy. He means more to me than any girl that I've ever dated has. I don't know how to really even put it, but he is the only thing on my mind when I wake up and the only thing on my mind when I go to sleep, and I don't mind it. He's so attractive. I'd sacrifice so many things just for him.I wrote him love stories that I never gave to him... I still have each of them. One is called "Dear X", and another is called "The Truth". And then there's "Giving Up", when I felt like I wasn't worth his time or his effort. He knows that I love him, but I don't know if he knows how much I love him, or if he assumed that I just had a little crush on him.He's a freshman. I'm a junior. Age is but a difference, just like gender. His sister is also a lesbian, and I've talked to her day-to-day to try to understand what's going on and she's done a lot for me. Hunter got mad at his ex-girlfriend after she told me that I could do better than him. Whether or not he got mad because she said that or because he didn't want me to think that I could do better, I'm not entirely sure.He's said it before; he said I make him happy. And he said he cares about me. And I've told him that he makes me happy, and that I care so much about him. I honestly care more about him than I care about anyone else.My family is not accepting of the lifestyle that I'm choosing so they don't know anything really. After loving Hunter for the past few months, I don't feel like I'll ever be able to love a girl to the same extent as I've loved this dude for. I'm so in love that it actually hurts. I wait for the weekend to end and for Monday to come because he is the only thing that I can see every day that truly lightens up my entire world. Losing him would be the worst that could ever happen to me.I'm not sure what I should do in this situation. If you have any opinions, I'd really appreciate it. Thank you all so much...
A friend of mine to me regarding lesbians:
"I feel like, if you're using a dildo, you're somehow still struggling to emancipate yourself from the penis."
Am I gay?
I'm 25 years old and have had a gf for two years. Before her I was in quite a few relationships, some of them long term.Now, I love women. I think they're gorgeous and I love to be around them. I mean, I'm a guy. HOWEVER, I also know when guys are attractive and I've been hit on by gay guys multiple times. Also, I love anal and playing with toys. In fact, I have a plug in right now (but it's not a normal thing). I also like the idea of possibly taking a dick and really honestly sucking one, if I'm of course comfortable and it's an attractive penis. But again, I've never actually been with another guy.So, am I bi, straight, or somewhere in between?
Am I gay? Who am I[f/24] supposed to date?
fml. I feel too old to still be so confused.So I thought I was bi, and some guys do turn me on, but it's kinda rare, and sex with men is disappointing 99% of the time. I get more and bigger crushes on girls than guys, but I've never had sex with one.I've never been in a romantic relationship that I'm proud of. I worry like I'm too queer for men and too straight for women. I worry that everyone will get married, and leave me alone.I'm just crazy and worried. Obviously, everyone has their own path, but does anyone have any advice? If you were confused, how did you get un-confused?
Did my first time... Have a few questions
Wasn't as great as I thought, but meh.Anyways what's been bothering me is that I'm worried about STDs. My partner didn't have a condom so I avoided bottoming. I'm clean and I topped him, and I also gave him a bj, where I think I swallowed some of his precum (not cum).Am I at risk? I don't know if he's clean or not, but the fact that he didnt have a condom worried me.
Best apps for cam sex?
Hey i wanna jack off with guys on my phone, I dont wanna use Kik because it sends them stuff permanently and also saves stuff on my phone.I use chatous at the moment but its not very reliable, what do you guys recommend?
Birmingham pride 2015
I just got home after going to Pride and it was amazing. I was lucky enough to be on the main float leading the parade, I have never done anything like that before, 1000s of people looking at me, but it felt so great everyone was so energetic. I'm normally a really shy person but there I was waving to people and smiling so much it really was a great experience.
2015. május 22., péntek
How safe are gay bars?
I'm studying abroad in France and I really want to try going to one. I know the more obvious safety tips like watching your drink and not getting drunk and not carrying a lot of money, but I'm mostly concerned about how cleanly they are. Are they known to have people with a lot of STIs?I know that if I were to meet someone to of course wear a condom but still, curious about this issue.Thanks!
I'm gay but want to date this girl...?
I am gay I know I am. I have been with 2 guys but have never slept with a woman or made out or dated nothing. I am 25 and feel so inexperienced. When it comes to females there are certain girls whom I find myself attracted to. I like girls who color there hair and have tattoos or certain piercings and some other types I just find really attracting. And I feel it would be fun to try dating making out but when it comes to sex I get nervous and feel like I don't know if I could get aroused. Maybe I am a sliver bisexual being that I like guys more but also like women. I feel confused. This girl on tinder messaged me and we talked she wants to hang out for drinks on Memorial day and gave me her number. She seems really cool and my type. But I don't know we're to even start or go with this. What do we talk about I want to be more than a gay guy to her but how would I tell her this? Need some advice.
Louisiana State Senator Slams Bobby Jindal For Pushing 'Religious Freedom' Measure
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhZFAr8y_Xg
How do you think my mom would react if i came out?
Several months ago, when my brother make a remark that two men dating is weird, my mom countered that by saying there is nothing wrong with gay couples and whatever they like.Several days ago, i set up a new wireless router for my family (I am the most tech savvy person in the family). Once i got it set up, my mom gave me her Kindle and laptop to set up the new network on. Browsing through her Kindle to find out where to go to connect her Kindle to the internet, i saw a book with two men kissing on the cover, and i find out that every book on there is a gay romance book.With what i have just wrote, it sounds like she is very supportive of gay people. However, she has said homophobic things in the past. One of things she said five years ago was "Gay people choose to be gay to rebel against their parents". She is also from a religious family, but she hasn't went to church in a very long time with the exception of weddings or funerals. She still identifies as a Christian but never really does anything religious. Her political views are for the most part Conservative. She has supported Republican candidates in the past, but recently she has said that neither candidate is better than the other in reference to recent elections.Last year she has said that it is hypocritical of some people to pick and choose which parts of the Bible to follow. This was in reference to Baptists being against drinking and having laws in some counties where it is illegal to sell alcohol (dry counties). My family is mostly Catholic btw. I am not sure if she may have also referred to gay people when she said that.Now for some information about me. I am 20 years old, i am one class away from graduating from community college, and then i will transfer to a university. I have known that i am gay since i was 14, and i first told someone that i am gay last year and have since told a few friends. I live in rural Kentucky as well.I feel like my mom will probably accept me if i come out, but i do worry that her past homophobia could reappear if i come out. I doubt that she will kick me out, but if she does, i have enough money put away to last me long enough to get on my feet. I am also going to be receiving scholarship money that i have earned by maintaining a high GPA when i transfer ($4,000 a semester). I feel like I am ready to be openly gay, and tired of being in the closet. Sorry this is such a long read. Any advice is welcomed.
Things not to say to a trans person - Free Speech - BBC Three
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pvBwWeG4Rpc
A hÉire, is breá liom thú. Tá an seans anois agat é a rá liomsa is le go léir do phaistí LADT. Ná caith amach é.
Translation from Irish: Ireland, I love you. You now have the chance to say it back to me and all your LGBT children. Don't throw it away.
What to do in your first relationship?
Homophobes, bible thumping Christians please stay away.I am looking for advice and not someone telling me that homosexuality is wrong. I was born this way!!!I am a 18 year old man currently involved in a relationship with someone almost twice my age. We are not exactly a couple yet and we would like to keep it that way because it will interfere with my studies. Before all of you judge, this is a very good single man( with no wife or kids) with a career, we know each others families, and he does not force me to do anythingI know this part is very judgable but we first met through a gay dating app called Grindr, I first met him through a hook up. We decide we really liked each other after that night, so we kept meeting each other after that, not only hookups but just hanging out in general. It has been three months already, he has clearly expressed he has feelings for me through the things he said. I like him, but I dont know how if I can trust him yet. He's a doctor, so I pay him for my gluthatione injections. Could he possibly only like me for my money? We were friends with benefits before this... Could he only like me for the sex? He doesn't show any signs that he is taking advantage of me but the thoughts just worry me.I also feel I am getting overly attached to him. Before I didn't really mind if he didnt text me or not, but now I get really anxious and worried if he replies slowly or doesnt text me. I understand I am still young and unemployed, He's a busy adult with a job and life. I've never been in a relationship in my life before, I've never been so attached to someone in my life. I'm scared I might say the wrong things or come off as too clingy. I really dont want to lose him.. he's a really nice and good guy.What to do..Break off this relationship so I can stop this pain? Talk to him about it? Try to take it further? I'm blind now and need guidance. In your opinion..Is this relationship immoral? Would a relationship like this ever work out? What you think?
I Do - An Alternative Perspective on Ireland's Same Sex Marriage Referendum.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1vxpvHLPRo
2015. május 21., csütörtök
WWYD? - A Teen Reveals He's Gay To His Conservative Parents...It Turns Ugly!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v097heN2mqo&feature=share
In a social experiment, far more strangers stood up for ridiculed gay parents in Texas than in New York
https://www.youtube.com/attribution_link?a=lxdYR0F4B4w&u=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D4AbPinTJAYw%26feature%3Dshare
Eagle scout friend
I recently found out that a closeted friend of mine is an Eagle Scout. I find this very bizarre since he basically accepted a ranking that would not be available to him if he was openly gay.I don't want to judge him, but this kind of seems self hating in a way, and I think only will further his closeted-nessI don't intend to change him or anything like that. I just want to be able to cope with this.
Racist Pastor hates gays. Be a good idea to flag this video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vle9hZAYbaA
Opinion on "Truscum" and "Tucutes"?
Truscum and Tucute is usually used on Tumblr. It's a huge divide between the two. Is gender disphoria required to be Transgender? Do people pretend to be Transgender/not cishet online sometimes?I was just curious what you guys thought.
Tomorrow, my country (Ireland) will vote on whether or not gay marriage will be legal. Here's my summary of the whole situation.
Most people will glance upon this and think that Ireland is a religous and traditionally conservative country, you'd be right to an extent, this is why I was shocked to see how much support there was for marriage equality, all over my facebook I saw, 'vote yes <3' and similar posts. Me and my sister both advocate and support gay rights (and civil rights in general), she brought home some badges that said "TÁ. COMHIONNANAS." and "YES. EQUALITY" on them. ( The first one is Irish for Yes Equality) I proudly wear my badge to school and around and in that first day was called a 'f*ggot' three times. One of the people who called me that, later posted "Yes, equality comes first!" or something stupid on his facebook. This infuriates me, and it makes me anxious for tomorrow, I can't help but think that many of the people milking the YES campaign to boost their social status may vote No. The No campaign has also gotten a TON of funding from the US, like I can't watch a youtube video without seeing an ad by the Iona Institute, mostly this bullshit. (These guys are horrible, also they gave themselves the title of institute) Polls show a majority Yes, but I'm still wary. One more thing is that the No side are incredibly insensitive. My friend lost his mother recently, he can't walk to the bus stop without seeing 'A Mother's Love is irreplaceable, vote no' on at least 4 posters. Anyway, I just thought I'd keep everyone who doesn't know updated about the situation over here, Tá, comhionanas. (Forgot to mention, I'm 14. hat may be relevant)
Gay Porn , YouTube Tag!? suggestions!?
YouTube Gay Porn TAG! any help please... I don't know how familiar everybody is with YouTube TAGS, but basically it's a list of fun questions about specific things (music, film, books, friends, family, etc). I want to CREATE one about Gay Porn...example of questions I'm thinking of...favorite porn studio favorite porn star most overrated porn star porn star you'd want to fuck porn guilty pleasure fantasy porn match-upi want to come up with like 21 in total... can y'all help me.
Any books to help me learn about non-binary?
A close friend has "come out" as non-binary; I use quotations because somehow, upon them doing so, it just clicked perfectly. It made perfect sense. It took them a long time to figure this out and then share it, and I could not be happier for them.That said, beyond what they've told me about non-binary and what I've read about it on a few web articles, I don't really know much about it. I'd like to get a more thorough, perhaps less clinical understanding of what the non-binary experience is like. Part of the reason is that this is an area where I am not at all knowledgeable and I like learning about stuff, and also the fact that it is such a huge deal for my friend that I'd like to be more acquainted with it. Furthermore, they've asked that people try and refer to them as "they" instead of "she", but I fumble this particular ball at times and I think it's because although I care deeply for my friend and want to support them any way I can, I have not perhaps entirely internalised the concept.Hence I was hoping there might be a book out there that might help me understand more about the experience of living non-binary in a very binary sort of world. Unfortunately, the hits I get when doing searches on Amazon miss the mark terribly.Do you have any recommendations?
/r/China mods declared the username /u/scumFAG itself is not offensive. am I just being too SJW?
mods about /u/ScumFAG:Calling other people fags and make derogatory statements about gay people is not acceptable in /r/China, the username itself is not offensive. If it was something like **inksRfags it would be a different situation. I know you've love to waste a lot of time arguing this one out, but lets just leave it here.Im just curious what /r/ainbow thinks?
Everything I did was Wrong.
I was forcefully dragged into the affair of my friend and his girlfriend by him.In the end I just told half of the truth to her, and he felt so affected, he told me everything I did was wrong. He was the one who made her jealous, by saying he was going out with "bae" which was me.He jokingly kept pestering me of this girl we saw at a restaurant, asking me for her number as I knew her, as I worked with her before.He pestered me of going back to the restaurant in front of his girlfriend, and I accidentally said of that girl, which made her jealous. I felt very guilty as She left off on her own.So they got into a fight, because of me. I tried to tell some truth, by saying that the bae was me, it made her feel better. However my friend doesn't really appreciate the long text, he received from his girlfriend. He know that I told her the truth, and that caused of the long text from her.This, the least I expected was, coming from him, "everything you did was wrong". Everything. I tried to make things right, so I can clear the guiltiness in my chest, but in return I did was wrong. I felt much even more guilty than ever.I have never been so affected by this, forcefully dragged and, be blamed? I had my share of unhappiness, just kept quiet about it. It really hurts me. I was going to breakdown. The guilt was very heavy.In the end all I did was apologize and ignored my feelings of unhappiness towards him. He never knew of my unhappiness to him, but i just acted as if nothing had ever happened between he and I. I'm just too tired.In the end, their relationship better. Still the guilt has never left my chest.
2015. május 20., szerda
Update on Subway guy
So I finally got the balls to ask this guy at Subway for his number, as I posted a few weeks ago. He told me he wasn't gay, but he handed me his number and told me he wasn't opposed to hanging out so I'm really confused now.He's tried to come to my work a few times since my last post and everyone he's come looking for me, but I'm confused as to why he told me he wasn't and still have me his number.Along with that, I got his number earlier today and everyone is telling me not to text him till tomorrow but the one day rule is so dumb and I was planning I text him tonight mainly cause I'm so confused.
I am a teacher ... what advice can I give to support a gender-fluid student in my class?
Hi All I apologise if this is the wrong place to post, I'm a bit of a reddit lurker as it is ... and I tend to stay on the front page or TwoX.However, I am a teacher in a training teacher position, at a small, rural school. It's a very white, heterosexual, area, where even something like dying your hair pink is seen as different.My training position started in February, and finishes at the end of the June. In one of my classes I have a 15 year old female student. She began to chat with me, and build a good rapport. This has turned in to her using me as a counsellor. I have no problem with this, and she knows I have to follow school policy with reporting child protection issues. I am a young female myself, and have been incredibly vocal within Social Study lessons about how tolerant I am.Because of this, the student felt she could confide in me, and has told me that she feels she is gender-fluid. She leans more towards the female, and is happy with the feminine pronoun, but with masculine days.I am thrilled for her that she has found a way that helps her understand herself more. However, since identifying this she is also sinking in to a depression, where she wishes she was "normal" and cannot cope with feeling emotionally like this.I have followed all school procedure channels, and she is receiving counselling ... however, she still chooses to talk to me a lot. I generally try and advise her that she doesn't owe anyone anything, and that she should just try and own who she is. It doesn't matter how she identifies herself, so long as she is being true to her feelings and emotions? The most important thing she can do is be truthful to herself. We've discussed how difficult that is, and how people aren't always tolerant, and we've discussed her age and how it is going to be tough over the next few years. We've discussed the location she lives in, and how much harder that makes owning this. We've discussed (and I respect and understand) that this is not something she wants publicised at school, and is therefore cautious of.Is there any bit of advice I can give to her, or directions I can point her in, that would help her understand more about herself? I leave this placement in 4 weeks time, and I would like to go knowing I have helped this student become in a more secure position?I gave her a diary today, as she is a keen writer, and I am hoping that keeping a journal will, at least, allow her to express herself and have something to talk to.Thank you all in advance.
Davey Wavey Has Straight Guys Explain Weird Gay Sex Toys [NSFW]ish
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLKtXCM73xc
New and Confused - ruining my life?
Hey all,im pretty new to these feelings. I'm 25 and been living the straight life for a long time. few years ago I've had an encounter with a guy and it did satisfy some curiosity but at the same time brushed it off.Been with my SO(girl) for 5 years now, moved across country together. We have a very stable lifestyle, not engaged and no kids, both professionals and trying to advance our careers.I've experimented some more a few months ago (yeah i know i shouldnt be, but thats my burden) and over time just thinking about my experiences. I'm confident that I am bisexual here. I have no idea what to do cause my SO is my best friend of my life but I feel like I'm living a lie if I stay with her. She would be devastated more over the fact that I'd be bisexual than the fact that I cheated on her with a guy (which to say, both bits of news will devastate her).I feel like i should leave. but I just cant. Shes my best friend still and we stuck out through a lot of shit thick and thin together. Also it would cause us both to be financially unstable and ruin our dreams together.I just dont know what the fuck to do. This may be just more of a rant than anything but i just need to tell someone. I have no one to talk to.
Survey: What has your experience been as a member of the LGBTQIA community? Basically, tell me a story.
Hey all! I'm a first year student in Marshall at UCSD. For the past week, I've been collecting responses from the LGBTQIA community in the form of personal stories or musings. Submissions have ranged from stories about first love, shuffling between closets, and walking like a straight girl. I'd love to add your experience to the mosaic! The stories will be woven together as part of a final longform poem aiming to highlight the experiences of LGBT youth in America (and beyond).Link: http://goo.gl/forms/78DQeIKp0NI've already learned a lot about the community (and myself) in just one short week. The more voices, the merrier. All responses are anonymous, and the final product will not be shared beyond the confines of a classroom. Share what you feel comfortable with.
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