Why can't I find my other half?

I'm a 16 m and I want someone to love me. I feel like I try to hard for relationships that don't exist. I live in Iowa so can people tell me how or where to find other guys. I just want to love someone. And I want to feel loved by them. I use meet me but somehow I get all the people that have serious family problems. I just want someone who I can cuddle with. I feel so lonely and I go to omegle even though I know I shouldn't. Its just how people make me feel. I've had a lot of issues growing up and now all I want is someone who I can love. So can the people of reddit please give me some advice. I already use meet me.