Good gay?

Hey,I was dating a really nice, good looking, and intelligent guy, which is exactly my type... after third date he has told me he isn’t getting attracted to me because I am too good, and way better than him (successful wise).It’s the third time I get rejected because they claim I am too good for them/they afraid to hurt me because I am such a good guy/guys like me doesn’t exist.What am I doing wrong? Should I start being rude? Ignore men I date and behave to them like shit?I am so depressed thinking I finally found a great guy, and I might never find love in this city...;(