How to meet GOOD GAYS?

I'm 28 y.o. gay guy, had couple years long stories, and had sex with around a hundred guys (and 1 girl).I broke with my last bf some months ago and am now single. As I browse grindr and similar apps I only stumble upon people looking for sex. Even when I could find a "coffee meeting", after 1 hour of talking the guy inveted me to go upstaris in his room. You can imagine, he didn't want to show me his barbies' collection. I start feeling everyone is crazy out there. So the question is, which could be a good way to meet gay guys interested in something more than sex? The main problem is I'm also like sex addicted, so if people starts to offer me sex I start to focus on sex too, and stop to look for "good guys". Grindr seems to be a bad spot for me!Thanks!