First relationship

So as the title suggests I'm in my first gay relationship and it's pretty great.There's really only one issue tho and that is that I'm wanting sex from him but he doesn't give it. We have been together for over a month now and in that time I say we've probably had full sex like 3 times (anal), other times we will just wank together to porn.This is my first serious relationship ever, with female or male so I'm not sure if this is normal or if it's something wrong. I've asked him if I do it well and he says I do great.Some other details, I'm top and he's bottom, I'm 26 he's 19, he's had a lot more partners than me.