Are We Woke? #Justapreference

As a fem, quasi-fit yet thicc (with two c's, naturally) black man, within the first 48 hours of Pride month I have felt great love... and I have felt great hatred (was literally called n***er sub-human trash today [yay progress]), within our own community. I understand we have some long ways to go and not every lgbtqia+ member is the same, but I personally feel like the "fat, fem, and asian" trope is quickly becoming the norm. Even then, fem (and sometimes fat) is okay- as long as you're white. Most days I wouldn't think twice about shit like this but I feel like it's been getting worse. Yes, to anyone that's shocked, this is happening on a semi-regular basis and I don't even live in the south #justaprefrence. Honestly, the "preference" shit gets so annoying it makes me want to quit men altogether. Does anyone else feel this way? Am I crazy? Shouldn't we be more accepting than our str8 counterparts? Maybe I'm just being critical because of pride... Or who knows, maybe my face is just busted 😂😂😂😂