2015. szeptember 7., hétfő

Boyfriend waits until after we've fooled around to tell me he has HPV

I'm freaking out a little bit and using a throw away because of the nature of this post.Basically my boyfriend who was a friend of a friend that I've been seeing for the past two months came to visit for the weekend. He has always been hesitant about fooling around, I thought he was just shy.This weekend we finally fooled around a little bit and then right before we were going to have sex he stops and tells me he can't do it. This is where he drops a bombshell saying that he has HPV and had surgery for warts the previous month (I knew he had surgery but was told it was for a different reason).I sort of froze up at this point because up until now we had spent most of the weekend fooling around and having a good time. I told him that I wished he would have told me this before we had fooled around.So here I sit, flipping shit, worried that I'm going to contract HPV or worse warts and googling what to do and symptoms. I've already scheduled an appointment for Tuesday at my University doctors office to get tested (I know it isn't one that can be tested for unless there are symptoms), might as well get tested seeing as there won't be anything new for a few months now, and speak about starting a vaccine for HPV (From what I've read that even if you've come in contact it is still beneficial to protect against the other strains).Basically I couldn't find what my odds of contracting HPV or warts were other than for the most part it seems that even if I did contract HPV I wouldn't know unless symptoms started.What else should I do? I'm probably going to break things off with this guy even though he is a very sweet guy because of the massive breach of trust and not disclosing this before anybody's pants came off, but is there anything else I really can do?

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