should i be embarrassed of having no bulge in tight grey sweats/joggers?

hey guys so i have these tight grey sweats. in these sweats i been hit on and stopped by 3 gays and complimented/praised while walking to work once and stared at during the summer when i wore them going to the beach cause of how my ass busts out from them. i was told that my legs look great in them ( i work out and they asked if i worked out cause of how they looked) and i was told my ass looks great too. but i have NO bulge in them. and if i go commando the bulge is really little ( im a grower and uncut so you dont see the head ,just little something there) , it makes me feel like if guys look theyll think im tiny down there. it just feels embarrassing. what do you guys think? would you be embarrassed or not? im vers btw so i care about my front and back.