Poop in the shoot

I like to stick the following items in my bum... Soda can, my own penis, and I let my wife f%+k me with a clone of "Little Richard" (it's what I call the guy). Also, my favorite is a foam stress ball that gets bigger after its inserted, beer bottles, basically anything that will fit... I'm not turned on in any way but another man. I just like my ass and stretching it. How much is too much though, and is it going to make me gay?