Help me help my fiancé

We've been together for 2 years, and our sexual interests are very different. He used to be very slutty and I am extremely kinky, but our interests don't overlap much. He tells me all the time that I'm trying to "turn a hoe into a housewife." I want to fulfil his sexual desires, but I'm not sure how to without becoming super submissive and kinky.We've discussed this issue before, because our sex life happens in intermittent spurts. How can I get him into the mood without delving into a kinky freak?