Is being GAY a choice ? & is it wrong to ask this question ?

So as many of you already know the genetic explanation for gayness has been around for a long time and anyone who dare question it's credibility is considered to be a stupid person a monster a raciest a homophobic and his death would do the world a great favor BUT ! Why is it so triggering to ask this question ,, i don't mean it should be right , i mean if Gay people are so sure that being gay is not a choice , Why don't they let people ask this question and get to the bottom of it and realize that it's not true and being Gay is not a choice ,, and everyone will be a winner Gay people will be like " I TOLD YOU SO " and some straight people will stop asking this question Now this is just my opinion on this topic because Gay people don't seem to be open-minded about this kind of subjects ,, That's all folks . .VasskaWix