Hate being grouped in the LGBTQ pride group

I hope it's not just me but I absolutely hate being chucked into a basket of gays decorated in rainbows and filled with camp stereotypical gays decked out in tank tops and mini shorts. I don't get why we have to have a 'community' for a range of minority sexualities. Well - I get the reasoning in general but I don't get it personally. If we have a group of gay people advocating for acceptance why can't they do it with a bit more sophistication? Ditch that annoying rainbow and leather outfits. Sorry but not all gays are willing to show 'pride' for that..