Just comming out. Need fahion advice.

So im just comming out. Working on my body image because i dont like myself very much. I dyed my hair and i realy love it....but i dont know how to style it to make me look decent. I still dont like myself. A guy that ibhave been crushing on even told me that i lool like a lesbian and it broke my heart....please help me find a way to style it and make over all sugetions on how i can look better and maby gain some love with my own body image.http://ift.tt/1PSO35P