Lost my virginity and immediately felt ashamed and "dirty" .. Is this common?

I'm 23, so it was a long time coming. But the other night me and a friend had sex. I bottomed and immediately afterwards i felt like less of a man and ashamed, dirty, etc. Lots of negative emotions. Had like literally no interest in sex since, and the guy who i did it with seems eager to do it again.I'm not saying the sex was bad,in fact - i loved it. I think i'm still uncomfortable about being gay. A lot of my family rejected me for it, and still haven't fully accepted myself i guess. I don't know if this is the reason or not, but it might be.I know a lot of people experience some shame after sex, but to this intensity? Completely killed my sex drive and has made me really miserable. I thought i would be so happy that i lost my virginity, but i regret it.