Forget attractiveness, I would like to just find a guy that isn't so self-absorb and has moments of selfless acts...

I think this is probably a universal search so I don't think this is anything new here. However, I find so many guys so self absorbed it's pretty nauseating. I just met this guy who "says" he's head over heels for me and is dumbfounded as to why I don't feel the same for him. He's hot but he's so self absorbed (it's like unreal). He can't see that he is and when he tries to prove he isn't it makes it worse. UGH!