2018. január 23., kedd

What songs are important to the LGBTQI+ community?

I was just reading about the song SWERLK by MNDR and Scissor Sisters and learned that it was released as a fundraiser on the anniversary of the pulse nightclub shootings. I also know that The Greatest by SIA is a tribute to the victims of the shooting. Are there other songs that are intrinsically valuable to the LGBTQI+ community? One could argue that the soundtrack to Priscilla, Queen of the Desert works, because it was such a worldwide hit focusing on real gay issues.Any ideas on others?

Being the gay token

So I fit the stereotype of a gay guy where I'm feminine, petite, and a little sassy sometimes. That's just a part of personality and physique though. It pisses me off when people see that I fit the stereotype and then only pinpoint that one facet of me: being gay. I have so many more facets of my personality and even if all of my friends know I have more to offer, they still just see me as the "gay guy". I've literally had friends introduce me to people like "this is Elijah, he's gay". It drives me nuts. But at the same time, I want to own my sexuality and I'm not afraid to flaunt it and be a little extra (with a finger snap). I just hate being treated like a commodity./rant

Could use some advice

For some background info: I'm 16(M)(11th grade) and came out to my friends ~2 weeks ago. They didn't really make a big deal about it and were very supportive. I haven't told my parents yet, but I have no doubt that they will support me regardless. There's a guy in my class I've had a crush on for about 3 months and I'm struggling to figure out if he might also be gay. I recently mentioned that I was gay to him in passing and he mentioned that he hadn't ever really had a crush on anyone, boy or girl. Another issue is that our friend groups don't really have any overlap. I usually hang out with the nerdy awkward kids, whereas his group consists mostly of the somewhat "cool" sporty kids. I've been trying desperately to get closer to him, but he always has friends around who I don't feel comfortable with. For a long time I was cynical about relationships in elementary and secondary school, believing that people were just unable to tell the difference between friendship and love, but since November I suppose I've had a change of heart and have adjusted my claim to just most relationships. My sister's gay friend (18M) suggested that I get closer to the girls in my class and put out some feelers that way.I suppose I'm asking you all for advice on how best to go about finding out if he's gay and interested, or at the very least get him thinking about his own sexuality.PS I try to avoid confrontation at all costs and am really awkward and socially inept.Rereading this, sorry for the rambling

One of the days when I feel like nothing

They don't happen that often, but I just feel depressed, anxious, and void of emotion atm. I don't know why, but I just don't feel like doing anything, and I don't want to do anything. It might be a combo of the chilling weather we have had for 2 months straight, relationship issues, job issues .... anyone else have, or currently having, one of those days?

Under my jeans

First time posting on here. Just found this sub the other day, and it seems like there's a nice, accepting community here.I'm enrolled in school to become an auto tech. And the vast majority of students that attend are male. A few girls, but they're pretty much just one of the guys. So no point in trying to talk to them.So I'm bisexual, I have a girlfriend, and we live together. But lately, I've been feeling really depressed, and feeling more and more feminine, rather than masculine. I'm not sure why, but it's been bothering me so much the past few months. But that changed over this past weekend.My girlfriend has gone out of town to cut her cousins hair, and I had the place to myself. That's when I decided to try on her clothes. She a voluptuous, curvy girl with big hips, and breasts, so I was safe to wear them. I wore her panties, thongs, leggings, spaghetti strap shirts, a couple dresses, and even went as far as putting on her makeup. I even shaved my beard and legs as well.And I have to say that I felt so sexy and comfortable. But that's the thing, I've always felt good wearing women's clothes. I use to wear my mom's clothes, or my aunt's high heels when nobody was around. But I never had too privacy to just lounge around and enjoy it. And you can forget talking to my parents about it.They have mentioned before that they'd accept me if I was gay, but they've made horrible remarks about gay men in the past that it just seemed like they'd disown me. Not to mention my 3 younger brothers who look up to me. Jesus, I'm just getting anxiety right now just typing this.I'm getting off topic a bit. Sorry.So because of this weekend, I felt great wearing that stuff, I thought I'd take it up a notch. I decided that I was going to wear her panties and leggings under my jeans and go to class tonight wearing this. I'm super nervous but excited at the same time.

We started a gay youtube series where we get drunk and talk about gay stuff.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xbPGmjAHuQA

How do you know if you’re pregnant?

I have cravings for everything and I have been having sex lately and I feel like I’m having a baby. I am thinking about naming her Doobie. Short for Dooberah.