Conservatism as a gay

This isnt really about politics. Im typically more conservative socially. Having that said, I browse this sub to see what others in my community are experiencing ect, and all I see is constant whining about this thing or another (Very petty stuff at that). Whether its whining about guys not being interested (mostly because they don't take care of themselves), or some guys thinking about suicide because a guy won't notice them (saw that post earlier, really people?) I mean, are we guys or teenage girls? Thats where the "social conservative" comes in. Its hard to put into words what Im trying to explain, but I see a lot of "beta males" and its pretty sad some guys are not as strong minded as others. (probably not the best way to go about it, but oh well). Thoughts?