Are there any sites for dominant and submissive men looking for longterm relationships?

i'm 21 years old. tall and willowy. I'm 100% gay but the thing is, i don't suck cock (because i don't like doing it) or take it up the ass. I definitely consider myself more of a 'dominant' man (or a master, whatever you want to call me)BUT i'm not into 'rough' stuff at all. As in, some submissive guys want someone who'll degrade them, beat them up, and pee on them, I am NOT into any of that at all :Sbut I'm looking for a man who's 'submissive' to be in a long-term relationship with.By submissive, I mean a man who'd love to suck me off a lot but wouldn't care that i never sucked him and who'd let me fuck him every now and then, But who'd also be open to relocating to Florida (where my adoptive parents are sending me to live soon) And who's also 'adventurous' and loves to drive for a long time and take me on long road trips out east and through the south of the USA.it'd also be better if he was more of a 'recluse' as well, like myself, and who doesn't like going to gay bars or being promiscuous at all. I prefer monogamy.I'm wondering if anyone here knows what site i can find this on? Or what subreddit i could look for this on also?so far I've already tried Fetlife, recon, and collarspace, but guys on there are just 'all talk'... Does anyone know where else i can look?And please no criticism please. it is what i want.