[UPDATE] The questionable "straight" crush...

Please take the time to read my previous post, I feel you might be lost if don't have any context. Link to the original story.Okay, per request of a few people, I have an update on my "straight" guy. Sorry it took so long, but I'm in the full swing of school and it's been a long time coming.So last night left me even more confused. John, our two friends, and I were hanging out together and drinking. Again, it was just light drinking. Like I said in my last story, John went through his normal laundry list of questions about gays, gay sex, etc. And it's the only thing we talked about for most of the night.BUT. This time was a little different...Our other friend who was there, let's call him Matt (also gay), got the special treatment. Matt and John were very touchy-feely with each other. They were full-on, legs-wrapped-around-each-other cuddling, holding hands, playing with each other's nips, and feeling each other up. At one point, John was even purposely trying to flash his dick. Now while all this was happening, of course we're talking about sex, our erogenous areas, how gays do anal, what parts of our body are shaved, and even our dick sizes. WE TALKED ABOUT DICK SIZES.Now you might think this is difficult for me since I'm technically the one with the crush, but I was more upset that I didn't get in on the cuddle sesh that was happening.But it continued. And it turned into John getting shirtless on the floor while Matt sat on his bootylicious ass and gave him a back massage. John, being the exploratory fuck that he is, told Matt to give him a butt massage. He told him to really get into it, grab it, and jiggle it because he, "likes the feeling of his whole body jiggling with his ass." He also said, "it's the number one thing that leads to sex, even if someone's not in the mood."🤔Now all of this was a lot for me. I'm sitting in the corner, with a pillow on my lap, observing. I've had plenty of straight guys push limits but this boy has me so confused. I'm like ??¡!¿¡?Matt and I end up leaving at the same time, and I ask him if he had a good night. And he said, "well I got to feel all over John's body, so yeah you could say that." And all I could do was high-five him.SO. Here I am again. Lost in translation.I wouldn't even say that I'm crushing on him anymore. I'm just in a dire need to know. Like is he just be cocky? Is he overtly expressing his sexuality? Is just that comfortable in his sexuality? I've consulted many friends, both gay and straight, and no one knows. John always says that he's straight and I'm usually one to believe people until they say otherwise. But idk man...This update was specifically written for /u/ThagamusTheCalm -- I hope you and others can help me make sense of this mystery man.