Gay friends?

Hey guys -- this may be a bit of a ramble, so I appreciate you bearing with me.It feels like I can't have gay friends. The ones I do seem to only want to initiate sex. We can't hang out, we can't do normal things without them initiating it to one other thing.Don't get me wrong, I like sex. But I'd also just like a close community.Maybe it's Seattle. Maybe it's me. I dunno.Thanks for reading.