Anywhere I can find guy's who like to cosplay/crossplay?

I guess I could just say regular gamer or even gaymer haha, but I just realized as of recently I have a thing for guys who dress up as different characters & crossdress; I admit I don't game that often or watch a large variety of Anime, but I still dig it. It's not a sole focus I only look for in a person but was just curious if I'd get any luck here, I know there are other sub-reddit's like /r/gaymers but I thought I'd just post here & see what happens, I hope that's okay by the way :)