A plead to people who post questions looking for advice

Thank you for being brave enough to post your personal situation online. Please be aware Hough that life is complex and sometimes there's no single clear answer...so when commenters ask questions or ask for more clarification, it would be really helpful if you could eventually respond. Many of the issues posted here are relatively big, so it's clearly not disappearing overnight. If you put in that little extra effort and enter into some dialogue, I promise on average you'll get a lot better advice in return.Thanks askers and answerers for making this such a good sub :)