Help please..

I'm about to ask the biggest question there is here. How do i come out to my parents? I am afraid of what they'll think. My mother will most likely be ok with it, but my dad thinks I'm straight, he is ignorant, and always talks about how I should ask women out, I usually just ignore him when he tells me that, then ask why I never talk to them. I actually recently bought a pride band for myself to remind me that it will get better, right now I'm dealing with depression and anxiety, but my dad saw the band on my wrist and this is what he said "Get that gay shit off your wrist." That really hurt. I just recently moved out, i was going to tell them before they left my place when I moved in but I couldn't bring myself to it. I don't know what to do. Although I am getting counseling to deal with my depression and the anxiety and I have someone in person to talk to about this.