2016. április 19., kedd
Would you date a gay man who used to live as a woman?
Hey guys, just curious if you'd ever date a man who lived as a woman but then detransitioned? Example; a man who lived as a woman for most of his life, like 16 of 31 years, who then realized he wasn't trans but was actually a gay man and so decided to start living that way. Would you consider it without condition or would there be certain circumstances you couldn't accept, like if he'd actually had surgical feminization of his genitalia or still had breasts? What if he still had the male genitalia he was born with? Thank you for answering despite this being posted from an obvious "throwaway" account. I can't ask this question from my primary account. I'm sorry.
Gentleman Can you help a sista out?
I am product manager at a technology company and need your help! Trying to grab anonymous feedback from the gay community on meetup apps.I think we can all say that we have probably tried some... and now I am trying to find out some initial experiences and reviews.It would help me get a big promotion, which I think is a big win for LGBT rights and being a female in a very male driven industry.Thanks for all your help it means the world!!!! Click below for the survey, remember it is ANONYMOUS!http://ift.tt/1MGIblm
Family Reunion Continued
I rewrote the letter. Feedback is appreciated. Click here for original letter/backstoryDear Family,I was very much looking forward to introducing my wonderful boyfriend to all of you this summer despite the significant financial strain it would have put on both of us to take time off of work and travel such a distance. In planning for the trip I never thought to consider that he may not be welcome. Yes, I understood his presence would probably make some people uncomfortable—surely no one would be more uncomfortable than the two of us—but we both felt it would be well worth a little discomfort. I suppose it was wrong of me to assume that I could bring someone without asking, but I was genuinely surprised to hear that he would not be allowed to attend. If I had known that any one person or any group of people had the authority to say who may or may not come, I would have at least made an attempt to go through the proper channels.You probably didn't mean any harm, but whether intentional or not you did hurt me. If I was the only one affected I would have endured in silence and put on a smile like I always do, but you didn't just hurt me, you hurt someone that I love. The damage has been done and the tears have been shed, and no apology can undo that. I chose not to attend this reunion because it would have inevitably lead to conflict. If you think I could go the whole weekend without addressing this issue then you must never have had someone you love be ostracized for no good reason.If the issue is simply that we would make you uncomfortable then I respect that and we will both wait until you are ready, but I don't think that's the problem. When I said that I won't go without my boyfriend I was told that I was trying to "push my beliefs" onto people. That is not at all the case—I'm simply trying to live my life like a normal person, but if your belief system is so fragile that the presence of one healthy same-sex relationship would endanger it then maybe you should rethink what you believe. And if you're worried that we would confuse your young people then maybe you should learn to talk to your children. Do you think you're doing them or yourself any favors by shielding them from reality because it contradicts your worldview? I think they are smarter than that.It's so tempting to try and write something to deal pain in equal measure to what was received, but I don't want to tear down and destroy. I want to repair the damage that has been done and open the door for us to grow closer as a family. I hope that everyone has a wonderful time without us this year, and I look forward to bringing my boyfriend with me to the next reunion.I love you all very much and I wish you peace and joy.
I fell in love with the wrong guy
I'm in college, it's the end of my freshman year. I met this guy. We've become really close. He is so kind and sweet and nice and handsome and I love him.Flashback to December (It's now April). I had been in love with him since October. This girl who was a mutual friend of ours told him I liked him and he freaked out. He already knew I was gay, but I guess the fact that I liked him weirded him out. He stopped talking to me. I didn't hear anything from him until after Christmas break when we came back to school in January. We're friends again now. Just as close as before. I thought I was over him, but now that we're friends again, my feelings are coming back. Maybe I never stopped loving him. I don't know what to do. I love him so much but I feel that if he even gets the smallest inkling that I love him I'll lose him forever. Anyone have any suggestions about what I should do?
Real life arousal
So I had my instructor help me in class and I never really Luke him standing close but whatever when after a while I got a burning sensation in my waist area. Is this attraction arousal no erection but I know thats an unreliable measure of arousal. What are your thoughts
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