Downlow

Hey guys. I have always known I am gay but it is very unacceptable where I live so 16 years ago I married a woman. But last year I met a man, we fell in love and I really love him like I have never loved before. He is pushing me to tell my wife and get a divorce but I just can't. The whole world will come tumbling down if I do. My parents won't be able to survive this. And I told him all that and he said that he can't do this anymore and gave me a week to decide what to do. If I don't he said it will be over between us and I love him and I don't want us to part. I don't know what to do.