do muscular gay men ever give regular chubby guys a chance?

i'm a 175lb guy and i'm pretty short, if i were to lose weight i'd fit the twink stereotype pretty well because i'm roughly 5'5. most of my body fat is in my ass and thighs and my friends say that's good but i get really insecure that i won't meet anyone. i'm sort of well into muscular guys (i blame it on the porn, that i try not to feed into) and all i see are bottoms who are really skinny or really buff and i'm sort of in between and it gives me anxiety and i end up feeling bad about myself. i don't know what to do. my doctor says my weight is normal, but i can't help but feel undesirable being apart of the gay community. i'm scared really. thoughts? concerns? experiences?