Being "friendzoned"

So I met this really nice guy I had 3 dates with.The first date was great and he specifically said that he really wants to see me again and I felt the same way, which I told him.During the second date we kissed, hold hands and later made out in my car. However, as we were waiting for his train, he said something along the lines of "I wonder where this is going between us". Obviously, I enquired and his responses were that he has a problem with the distance, after that he mentioned that he's also seeing another guy and the conclusion was that he just wants to be friends. However, the day before the next date he said that "he's really looking forward to it".The third date was at his place. We watched movies and snuggled up for most of the time, but he did not want to kiss. That was pretty much the only thing he didn't want to do, because later on we had sex and I'm more or less sure we both enjoyed it. Still, no kissing. Not sure why in his mind sex was ok, for "being just friends", but kissing was taking it too far.If anything it didn't feel like he just wanted only friendship. I suspect that he doesn't have that many friends and his relationships might not have been that successful. So it would make sense that he'd opt for a friendship instead of a relationship (which will eventually end disastrously...)I have to say that I did all the common mistakes to end up in the friendzone. So, currently I'm following the usual steps to get out of it. Any other advice?Thanks