UPDATE: Fiancé shoved me to the ground

Thank you to everyone who reached out and for all the advice from my post yesterday about my fiancé who shoved me to the ground among other abuses.I just wanted to offer an update. These last two days have been overwhelming with emotions and thoughts. Which has been especially troublesome as I have my final exam tomorrow morning and have been unable to focus.While I was at work, I remembered that when I was leaving the house after our fight, he went back to our room and came back with my phone (I couldn't find it earlier). As he was handing it to me, he held his finger over the power button and it turned on. I asked him why he turned it off but he refused to answer. It later dawned on me that I couldn't find it earlier because he had taken it and hidden it. He had also shut if off (to probably keep me from calling it to find it).I texted him to ask if that was what he had done. He didn't reply so I called him. He refused to answer and was aggressive on the phone when I questioned him. He finally admitted it and I hung up.He later called me a few times and I ignored him. I texted him and told him he needed to find a place to stay and suggested a few of his friends or his family.He responded that "we were going to talk about this in person". I told him to just text me where decides to stay and that we wouldn't be talking until I've had more time to think and wrap my head around this situation.He said he had something to tell me but refused to tell me over text. So I called him and he was again very aggressive/angry with me. He wanted me to come home and talk with him. I again I told him I wouldn't talk till I've thought about this more and had time to process. He seemed to be under the impression I was being unreasonable and got angrier. I told him that he doesn't seem to understand the severity of what he's done and how badly he fucked up. He then told me he had something to say, and asked if I was listening, I said yes and he replied were done and hung up.He then texted me to let me know that he was leaving to go to his family a few hours away and would be back later this week.That night he left me a few voicemails, apologizing, telling me he loved me, that he wanted to be together. I did not return his calls. I did send him the reddit post. He replied with this:You and the people on the threads are completely right about what I did being wrong. It was so wrong, I feel awful about, and while I am incredibly sorry for what I did, I don't except you to forgive me. But some things the responders on the thread have wrong is that (1) they don't have the full story about our relationship, so they don't know how great ours is and how happy we are together, and (2) Reddit is not a good source for advice. Remember what your counselor said about the dead bedrooms sub-reddit? Anyone can just go on there and say whatever they want like they're experts! In contrast, WE know what we have. And, again, while I don't expect you to forgive me because so many of the things I did were wrong (yelling, shoving, keeping you hostage, and holding on to your tech stuff), I am INCREDIBLY sorry. (my name), this has been such a big scare for me. I would never want to lose you. I asked you to marry me for a reason. I love you so much and you know I'd work through anything for you. You know how many challenges we've faced and yet I've always been there. I know you've felt really good about us just like I have and I want to keep that forever with you. I miss you. Please, I continue to beg you, call me. I love you.I told him I would not be calling and that I think it would be best if he made this a long visit with his family. I told him he needed to find a new place to live and he seems to be agreeable to this and mentioned he would start looking for a new lease somewhere when he returns.I'm still feeling really rattled and confused. I keep trying to downplay what happened, but then I go back and re-read what I wrote and it's a reminder of how awful it was and how unacceptable it is to treat your partner that way.TL;DR: He is a few hours away staying with his family. He will be moving out when he returns.