When are you going to start being gay?

Hey all,So I got that question on Monday. The context was that I thought Disney movies were alright (not something I really get excited about). The thing is I don't really know how to be gay. I don't have the stereotypical voice, I'm not fashionable...I don't know how to use hair gel. Part of me thinks this is just a thing of what people outside expect me to be. But it's like I've never even kissed a guy (at 26). I don't understand how to go about meeting people for relationships or hookups. I guess I feel like I'm not going to get to that expectation that would let me make that connection with someone. Not sure what I wanted from posting this but I guess I just wanted to get it out there.Thanks,