Would you be able to maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't like anal?

I've had my decent share of sexual experiences and I'm kind of in denial about the fact that I might not like being a bottom nor a top.This frustration stems from the fact that anal sex is considered by some the apex of gay sex. If you go to hookup apps, questions such as "top or bottom?" are among the most frequently asked, creating the idea that there's nothing else to sex other than penetration.