Catfished bf on Recon, now I'm getting worried

Hi to everyone out there :)I just want to get your advice on something, because I don't really know what to do.I'm 28, my bf is 21, and I've been with him for more than two years. We're in a long-distance relationship, but get to see each other frequently enough, and I know that he loves me and I love him and that we're committed to each other.While everything else is perfect while we spend time together, our sex life has not been for the past year or so. He's a kinky sub, and whereas I can be dominant, the kinky side just doesn't come as natural to me as I would like. I suggested an open relationship, but he is opposed to that.I have been suspicious that he has been playing around with other guys while we're a part for a while. So last week I made a fake profile on Recon, and now I set up a meeting with him this weekend in his city.It was my last resort, because I actually wouldn't mind him fulfilling his fantasies with others while we're apart, even if I don't get to fuck around in return, but for some reason he has a hard time being open about it, because I get the vibe that he is secretly ashamed of his desires.On the surface, it seemed like a good idea, I'd just call him when he's at the meeting point and confess and ask him to just please take this as an opportunity to just talk to me about that side of him and move forward. Kinda like, "I know, it's okay". But I'm getting worried that he might be angry, feel exposed, and lose trust in me.What do I do? Go through with it? Cancel the fake meeting? How do I get him to talk to me?