My nightly thoughts

Why is every guy I meet online obsessed with sex?I just want to meet some one who I can talk to and let my feelings out, to laugh with, to love, I want to have a guy to call my own ( or even just good friend) but most gays only see me as a quick pic to jerk off to. And yes I know that I need to wait for the right guy and that shouldn't be the only thing to make me happy but I'm lonely and I feel as though it will atl east start to make me feel better and finally be happy