Advice for how I could get my father to understand and treat me like I understand myself.

So heres the deal, I'm 15 and when I was 13 my parents found out that I'm gay. They were snooping in my room and they found a notebook where I had vented. When they first found out my dad never really did the whole I love you no matter what deal and just kept trying to tell me that I should do everything possible to get with a girl. He kept telling me how women are gods gift to man. He told me never to ever tell anyone and how family would never accept it. He said as long as im in his house I cant act gay or turn into a girl. After all that, he started doing things like trying to point out how hot girls on TV are and asking if there were any cute girls at things I went to. It made me really uncomfortable and I would always give a really muffled answer. He always uses the term wife when referring to my future. Once in a while he tries to talk to me about it. He will ask me about why I like boys and if I knew what was entailed in being romantic with a guy (no shit). I tell him how I don't appreciate him always trying to bring up girls but he just doesn't get it. He dosent let my go to friends houses to hang out becuase he thinks I'm going to do things I shouldn't. This year he forced me to see a therapist. I hate her, she's really old and religious. She always wants to get to the bottom of what could have caused me to be gay and what I can do to live a "better lifestyle" as in be attracted to women. She asks about family, friends, if I was ever raped or molested and what I do in my free time. It's also something I'm not very comfortable talking about when I was forced out of the closet and then I have to go to her and I'm forced to talk about it. I tell him how much I hate her and stuff be he likes her so that's where I go. Things are only really getting worse and more miserable. Could you guys offer any advice as to how I could talk to my dad to get him to understand that I am simply not interested in girls and wish he would treat me like I know who i am instead of forcing his crap onto me.