Top Reasons to be in a Gay Relationship

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBbf9Po8GdI

Does my 9 month relationship with someone over the internet "not count" because it was over the internet?

I always feel embarrassed when I tell someone I dated someone over the internet. Like it doesn't count or something. Can anyone relate? ;-;

I want to be honest... AMA

Hi, I am recently out of a relationship. None of my relationships last more than four months. I have never had anyone to tell all of my dirty little secrets to. To say I am looking for love right now is an under and an over statement. I am diagnosed as bipolar and manic depressive, I am not medicated though I am supposed to be and I choose not to be. I don't know if anyone would ever want to stick it out with someone who puts all of their energy and thought into empirical thinking. It is a daily process that keeps me level and happy. I want a friend, I want to be completely honest to someone. Anyone. AMA.

you should read this book. it defends SSM from a traditionalist catholic perspective:

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Is this gay?

I have been with my girlfriend for 3 and a half years ( I am a guy) and occasionally in sex she uses a but plug on me ( I love it) and I want to eventually get into pegging with her, does this by proxy mean I am gay?

Anyone else out there struggling to get over their first real crush?

So I recently came out to my family this past May when I came home from college. After that, I told a lot of my friends as well and it's slowly been getting around by word of mouth (which is what I wanted because I was too lazy to tell everyone, haha).A lot of my gay friends had suggested I use Tinder (definitely not ready for Grindr) to meet some other gay guys in my area. Not necessarily to hook up, but to broaden my horizon, feel more comfortable with myself, etc. So I downloaded the app, started my left and right swipe obsession and got a few potential matches. The one that stuck out the most is the one this post is about.We started talking. We met up. And he was great. He unfortunately wasn't out of the closet yet, but I just let that one slide by. He also was talking to a lot of other guys, admitting to me that he only hangs out with me though and he uses Tinder for the same reason why I did--to feel more comfortable with himself. I was a little upset by that, but since we weren't dating, I felt I had no jurisdiction to say anything. We would workout together, go to dinner together, and obviously just spend time with each other in general. We got really close and as much I as I didn't want to admit it, I was getting far more attached to him that he was to me. He introduced me to his parents, paid for almost everything, and would drive to my apartment to drop off medication when I was feeling sick. He would basically treat me like his boyfriend, but when it came down to that conversation, he kind of just disappeared. The friendship/relationship fizzled and ended about a few days ago.And now I just don't know what to do with myself, my time, etc. I get that there's plenty of fish in the sea and that time heals most things, but when I was talking to my friends the other day I basically said something like this:"It's that feeling when you know the person is no good for you and you're better off without them, but there's something about them that draws you in. You still crave their attention. And you wish things would just go back to normal. You wanna see the light at the end of the tunnel, but you can't because you keep looking back." (Cheesy, I know, but bare with me.)I guess all in all, I'm just having a little harder time getting over this guy because this is the first person that's showed interest in me since coming out. He's someone that I truly enjoyed being around and cared about. I've been in past relationships with girls (before I came out), which were great, but obviously were not the same. I guess I just need someone to tell me we've all been through it and how you got over it.TL;DR: I recently came out in May. Found a guy (not out of the closet) a month later. We hung out a bunch, he treated me like his boyfriend, but when the question came up he distanced himself. Now I'm just venting and trying to get over it. Anyone been through the same situation?

First day of school since I came out to one of my "friends".

I came out to pretty much my whole class because we're a small group of 12 students and everyone is friends. I did it in the beginning of summer, June-ish. Everyone is cool with it, except for this one guy. Really religious and likes to explain everything with science. Even says love is just a chemical reaction in your brain.I didn't want to conclude our final year of high school on a bad chapter so I remained optimistic, smiled and whatnot. Fast forward to today at the sidewalk waiting for our parents to pick students up. I see him walking past with his brother and his brother says "Aren't you gonna say bye to your friend?" (Aka me). Because it was pretty much routine last year we said bye everyday. He turns around and looks at me, doesn't smile or says anything, continues walking and that's it.Right in the feels. This is gonna be a long year, boys.