Is heterophobia a good analogy for reverse racism?

It exists, and it isn't right either way, but heterophobia/racism towards white people will never be the same as homophobia/racism towards black people, at least in America. Thoughts?I know people who hate white and/or straight people, and it's wrong. And trust me, people of color can be extremely racist. But at the same time, it feels uncomparable. Straight people will never have to worry about having their marriage rights taken away, and white people don't need a stuffed animal in the passenger seat to prevent from being pulled over.So when someone says "the Irish were slaves too" or that "saying Ready Player 1 was too hetero is offensive", I don't know what to say.Just want a civil discussion tbh