2018. március 21., szerda
Would You Date Me? (Need Objectivity)
Hello, I'm very sorry for this wall of text. I've tried to format it in a way that is quick & easy to read. I've been contemplating whether I am good enough or ready to date; I was hoping for an objective perspective.Context:I'm a 21(M) and my friend is trying to set me up with a 25 year-old dude. After sending a picture of myself, he gave the OK for my friend to give me his number.So, now I have his number; but I'm not sure about contacting him. I haven't been in a relationship, or engaged in that kind of intimacy. To my knowledge, he's had one previous relationship, probably more. I fear that I'm going to come off as mal-developed or too inexperienced.The Bad:I'm also going through a rough-patch. You can see details in my post history if you want; but to summarize, my Dad hates gays, and I live with him, my dog might have to be put down in 6 months, and I sometimes feel depressed (however I don't show it); I also still experience internalized homophobia to some degree. I am also unemployed. I also only have one friend.The Good:I am a full-time student; and I will be entering my nursing program within the year. Hopefully that means I'm decently educated.I am decently fit, 5 foot 7 at 140lbs; and I work out daily. Although, I still don't have a 6-pack.I rarely eat out & I'm a proficient cook.I have a car & my house is empty most of the time.I like to think I'm well-adjusted, caring, as well as open-minded.I think I look pretty decent. I take really good care of myself; however my teeth are a little crooked.The Neutral:I smoke weed dailyI seldom drink alcohol (wine)I'm a homebodyI'm masculineI could write more, but this seems appropriate for now. I didn't realize I would get this far. Thank you if you've made it this far; I do appreciate it.TLDR: The above text provides context, and highlights my good, bad, and neutral qualities. Hopefully this information will help you help me decide if I should date.
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