2018. március 5., hétfő

So I deleted Grindr. What now?

I finally decided to get rid of Grindr this weekend. Actually totally deleted the account. I felt like I was drawing many parallels to when I came off Facebook - despite its usefulness my mental state wasn’t being helped at seeing everyone live out their pseudo perfect lives. Grindr is great on days where I’d get results but on the days I didn’t it just became depressing. I’ve had a lot of action off there, probably more than I was due but I think the time was right to come off it.But the question remains what now? Sure, I have a few contacts that I’ve made off Grindr, but they won’t last forever and I don’t fancy being celibate the rest of my life. The problem is, I feel like if you don’t have Grindr these days you’ve missed the bus. I hear stories of people going to gay bars and just everyone staring at their phones using Grindr to hook up anyway. What is the point? How do you actually hook up without it these days - do people even know how? I don’t, as I have never once ever hooked up with anyone outside of an app or website. It’s an alien concept and I feel like one of my limbs has been chopped off.Can anyone offer any advice? I feel like I need to stay off Grindr for the sake of my own wellbeing but I don’t know how I will meet other guys without it. I’d probably end up going to places on my own, and I don’t even know if that would put people off or what. Help??

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