Boyfriend no friends...

My boyfriend hates the idea of me making new friends. He also gets incredibly suspicious when I want to hang out with friends who are not routinely part of my life; those friends you may only see a couple times a years. I’m also not convinced he’s even ok with me hanging out with my routine friends..Here are some of his reasoning behind it:-since we started dating I have been coming out. The important people know close friends and family but not everyone.-He thinks that everyone who talks to me has intention or wants to hook up with me. I advise him that it’s quite and assumption and that what should matter are my intentions. He states that there should be no risk of it ever getting to a point they could/would ask me out...-One time a friend of mine who is a girls invited me to a sporting event. -I ended up not going because he’s convinced it was a date.-Onetime an old girlfriend who I still considered a friend sent me a Snapchat out of the blue... I didn’t respond. (Yea he monitors my snap score and asks who I’m snapping)-I made a gay friend on the internet before I met him. Not initially but grew into an entirely platonic friendship. Would talk to him about my boyfriend and ask advice...boyfriend found out and now I no longer can talk to him... which is why I’m looking for advice here.-An old co-worker added me on IG.. he assume she wants to hookup with me.These are the reasons he has given me to not trust me hanging out with friends. He claims my definition of friend is untrustworthy. Am I wrong to think that if he wasn’t insecure this wouldn’t be a problem?