2016. április 17., vasárnap

So I came out to my parents yesterday... it didn't go so well :/.

Hey redditors!I'm 13 (and I'm aware that that's a RIDICULOUSLY early age to come out at, but I've known since I was 5 and I didn't feel like keeping the secret any longer) and I came out to my parents yesterday, but things didn't go down so well, so I need some advice. Firstly, my mom asked if I was joking or trying to give her a heart attack, and some other things, to all of which I answered "No". Once she finally realized I was completely serious, she started crying. After a short while of that, she just left and went into her room and locked the door. My dad was there too, but I'm 90% sure he already knew, as he didn't seem to care, plus he's known to be good at picking up on things.She came out of her room about 20 minutes later and went into a detailed discussion about things like "Are you positive?", "Why did I have to end up in this situation!", "Have you told anyone else?", and lastly "Do you know how complicated this makes things for me?!". But I'd say everything was more-or-less a success, up until the point where she said "Well, I can allow it and everything... but I don't want any of your boyfriends hanging around at my house." Now at the time I didn't care too much about that statement, but looking back on it now... what will I do? I mean, what if I find a boyfriend who's parents have this rule also? Where will we meet? Where can we go together? How can we interact outside of social media? And to top all of this off, I live in the south, which isn't too tolerant of gays in the first place. I've really just been worrying about these questions recently, but I haven't come up with any solutions... but if anyone out there can help, I'd be thankful.

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