Gay interracial interrogation?

I swear. As soon as someone finds out that I'm not only gay, I talk to black guys or men of color specifically, they bombard me with questions. It irritates me. Things like the size of my parter's junk, "who is the women", "are black men aggressive" I'm just sick of hearing it. I've been called racist for not dating my own race and I've had strangers accuse me of subscribing to the the "sexually fetishized" notion of black men in the gay community.Basically, none of that is true. I'm tired of the stereotypical questions and I'm even more tired of the accusations. Anyone else ever get this?????