Trying too hard to appease someone actually makes it worse.

We all have our bad days, some more than others. We can be selfish, ignorant and a plain asshole. That’s normal. But we have to aware of our behavior and make a conscious effort to be more respectful, understanding and thoughtful - to not do things that hurt each other.The problem now is what happens if one side has given up and now just walk on egg shells around you. Honestly I feel miserable. Am I such a terrible person? Sometimes I’m not sure what to think. It just comes across hypocritical some times because I have to accept his issues and work through it with him, looking for a compromise. But he is just looking to make me happy, which I’ve been telling him not to. Don’t make decisions just about me (not small decisions), we come to these things together. I’m not looking for someone to worship. I’m looking for a partner.At this point, I honestly feel like such a terrible person.