Typical gay behavior

Hey guys,I kinda got the feeling lately that there is nothing as : love between gay people. Everyone if "met" online just wants to f'ck or swap pictures.I live in a small city in germany. There's a german webside for gay and bi-sexuell boys. Everyone I've written with is just interested in sex or picture swapping. Same on e.g. Grindr. Even a 14 yo from my city messaged me if he could srsly suck my d*ck. And he was not a faker, I saw him once in RLIt really makes me depressed if I'll ever find someone who is really interessted in my personality and not just my body.EDIT: added a little extra, pls excuse any mistakes I'm not a native speaker.