Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. Back in December he had found cluster of anal warts and had his first surgery to have them burned off. In January, he had a second appointment to clear anything remaining. It is now March and he is completely wart free and we are both extremely relieved. Since his first surgery, we knew that sex would have to be adjusted to accommodate and I was willing of course.In our relationship, we are both vers and enjoy it equally. Obviously because of his surgery, he couldn't bottom for a few months. The warts are gone, and his anus is healing. He said bowel movements don't hurt anymore but a finger in there is very uncomfortable. We have given a small try on him bottoming but the head didn't even make it in before he said stop.I don't mind bottoming, I don't. But like I said I prefer both. I have this lingering thought he is going to get used to this setup and not want to receive anymore, he has told me thats simply not the case but. I have to be honest, the sex feels less dynamic than it used to because our choices basically are: me bottoming, blowjobs or hand jobs.I feel somewhat guilty being annoyed I can't top him but I know theres not really any other option at the moment. Am I terrible for feeling this way? Is there any other stuff we can do besides what I listed? Getting fucked is fun but after 4 months straight of it I am slowly getting bored. Obviously I need to talk to him about this in person, duh, but looking for any pre-emptive advice.
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