Fucking fuming right now, found out my parents are trying to basically poison the mind of an innocent trans male.

So my parents are fucking shitty, I'm mtf and still under their roof. Growing my hair out, hiding makeup etc, saving money until I can move out. They know I'm trans when I came out at 16 (18 now), they wanted to take me to a pray the gay away counselor and kept reinforcing "oh you look so handsome" and all this bullshit saying I'm not transgender or blaming it on a sexual assault I experienced years ago.

Well, they've been "mentoring" this 'girl' who's in this childrens home. Ever since I met this person I knew he was trans male, the way he dressed, the way he talked, the way he constantly said how much he hated dresses and loved wearing suits at work, it was so obvious to me. But I didn't know my parents knew.

Tonight during dinner discussion, my aunt mentions something about crossdressing and he gets up from the table and leaves, and my mom whispers "don't say that, she is having gender issues".

I had to fucking control myself from not lashing out in anger right there, it clicked right then and there. My parents are trying to reinforce this innocent person into thinking they're wrong for being transgender just like me and trying to reinforce them into thinking "oh you're female" due to all of the comments they consistently make saying "oh you're so pretty" and buying him dresses and swimsuits etc. To do this shit to me is one thing, but to seek out and try to subliminally bully a kid into ignoring their inevitable gender identity is fucked up on so many levels.

I am so fucking pissed off beyond belief, I wanted to puke. I really fucking loathe this family right now. I don't know whether I should confront my parents or what. I need second opinions.